Ringleader41
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White guys have it way easier in the game
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
There were whiners in the old days too. But yeah, the site had more a "community" feel to it. Or maybe I'm just getting older and losing my patience with the crybabies.PDubb75 said:Iceberg, you had a post a little while back talking about how this site used to be a "brotherhood" with loads of good info, and much less complaining.
It's crap like this that makes me jealous I wasn't here at that point.
Good point. What was the other thread he started today? "I just realized that I'm ugly"ArcBound said:Incoming Troll detected.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You'd still be jerking your load into your favorite white sock, while crying that Justin Beiber can't be yours.SamTheHobit said:If i was black i would get a job eisier in south africa.
Says the 37 year old who acts like a Virgin. :yes:KarmaSutra said:You'd still be jerking your load into your favorite white sock, while crying that Justin Beiber can't be yours.
You'd still be a grammatical infant no matter what color you think you are.
Now, pull your pants up, turn your lid straight, walk with both of your arches flat on the ground then fvck yourself.
Kids. Gotta laugh at 'em.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Should have been gamin' those chicks instead of washing dishes in the kitchen!Maxtro said:
SamTheHobit said:If i was black i would get a job eisier in south africa.
"Ebony (wanna-be) and Ivory, lived together in perfect harmony..."perseverance said:I'm a white guy and I've never had it easy in the dating game, so stop using race as an excuse for your failings with women.
Hey here's an idea. How about you read some articles and tips, FIRST. And THEN post threads whining and complaining?Ringleader41 said:Well how do yall game white girls than cause I'm lost. I'm stuck in the rich white suburbs.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.