Ringleader41
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White guys have it way easier in the game
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
There were whiners in the old days too. But yeah, the site had more a "community" feel to it. Or maybe I'm just getting older and losing my patience with the crybabies.PDubb75 said:Iceberg, you had a post a little while back talking about how this site used to be a "brotherhood" with loads of good info, and much less complaining.
It's crap like this that makes me jealous I wasn't here at that point.
Good point. What was the other thread he started today? "I just realized that I'm ugly"ArcBound said:Incoming Troll detected.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You'd still be jerking your load into your favorite white sock, while crying that Justin Beiber can't be yours.SamTheHobit said:If i was black i would get a job eisier in south africa.
Says the 37 year old who acts like a Virgin. :yes:KarmaSutra said:You'd still be jerking your load into your favorite white sock, while crying that Justin Beiber can't be yours.
You'd still be a grammatical infant no matter what color you think you are.
Now, pull your pants up, turn your lid straight, walk with both of your arches flat on the ground then fvck yourself.
Kids. Gotta laugh at 'em.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Should have been gamin' those chicks instead of washing dishes in the kitchen!Maxtro said:
SamTheHobit said:If i was black i would get a job eisier in south africa.
"Ebony (wanna-be) and Ivory, lived together in perfect harmony..."perseverance said:I'm a white guy and I've never had it easy in the dating game, so stop using race as an excuse for your failings with women.
Hey here's an idea. How about you read some articles and tips, FIRST. And THEN post threads whining and complaining?Ringleader41 said:Well how do yall game white girls than cause I'm lost. I'm stuck in the rich white suburbs.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.