"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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man, if I was white I would probably have it way easier

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Boo hoo.

Maybe if you stopped being a b*tch that would help too. Chicks tend to like guys who aren't b*tches.
 

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White people have it easier? Since when? Did I warp back to the 40s?
 
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I'm a white guy and I've never had it easy in the dating game, so stop using race as an excuse for your failings with women.
 
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If your black boast about your 10 incher and act all gangsta rap kool

If your asian boast about your education and computing skills

If your mexican boast about your cooking skills

If your indian boast about your cooking skills also lol



mmmmmmmmm....there ya go sorted!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Judge nismo sees a case of a male with emotional drawers!

What makes you think White folk have it easier? Race don't f**kin' matter. I'm black and even though I've got an uphill battle, I've seen Whites and other races struggle with women. Improve yourself and quit whining.

Case dismissed. Leave my courtroom.
 

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Iceberg, you had a post a little while back talking about how this site used to be a "brotherhood" with loads of good info, and much less complaining.

It's crap like this that makes me jealous I wasn't here at that point.
 

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Incoming Troll detected.
 

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PDubb75 said:
Iceberg, you had a post a little while back talking about how this site used to be a "brotherhood" with loads of good info, and much less complaining.

It's crap like this that makes me jealous I wasn't here at that point.
There were whiners in the old days too. But yeah, the site had more a "community" feel to it. Or maybe I'm just getting older and losing my patience with the crybabies.

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Incoming Troll detected.
Good point. What was the other thread he started today? "I just realized that I'm ugly"

Very new member + starts attention-seeking threads = troll

Do you think there's an correlation between high schools just starting summer break and the wave of bored teenagers starting troll threads? I do.
 
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What I've never understood is why people who don't like or love themselves expect to be liked and loved by others.

It just doesn't work that way, you have to love yourself before someone else will. People who are constantly putting themselves down, constantly whinging are seen as depressing people to be around and people will generally gravitate away from people with such a poor attitude and weak mentality.

I expect this type of talk from a woman, not a man. Us men can't get our pecs inlarged through surgery, we can't walk around with hair extensions or foundation like women. We have to make use with what we were born with and while we can't change everything there are things we can change.

What the OP needs is simple. He needs more hobbies, he needs to improve his self image which will improve his self esteem and he needs to realise that we all have our faults, but we shouldn't spend our entire lives focusing on them. We should focus on selling our good points to people.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Easier how? You have it easy with your own women, plus there are white girls that will only fvck black dudes. Just ran into one 2 days ago that wouldn't give me the time of day when she saw me in person. She was a solid 9 too.

There's also some evidence that suggests black men are the most sexually attractive of all races (see the recent psychology today study done on why black women are less attractive), possibly because of elevated testosterone levels
 

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Well how do yall game white girls than cause I'm lost. I'm stuck in the rich white suburbs.
 

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If i was black i would get a job eisier in south africa.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
If i was black i would get a job eisier in south africa.
You'd still be jerking your load into your favorite white sock, while crying that Justin Beiber can't be yours.

You'd still be a grammatical infant no matter what color you think you are.

Now, pull your pants up, turn your lid straight, walk with both of your arches flat on the ground then fvck yourself.

Kids. Gotta laugh at 'em.
 
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KarmaSutra said:
You'd still be jerking your load into your favorite white sock, while crying that Justin Beiber can't be yours.

You'd still be a grammatical infant no matter what color you think you are.

Now, pull your pants up, turn your lid straight, walk with both of your arches flat on the ground then fvck yourself.

Kids. Gotta laugh at 'em.
Says the 37 year old who acts like a Virgin. :yes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SamTheHobit said:
If i was black i would get a job eisier in south africa.
perseverance said:
I'm a white guy and I've never had it easy in the dating game, so stop using race as an excuse for your failings with women.
"Ebony (wanna-be) and Ivory, lived together in perfect harmony..."

I didn't think Paul McCartney could apply to anything.

I was wrong.

You lovebirds enjoy.
 

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Ringleader41 said:
Well how do yall game white girls than cause I'm lost. I'm stuck in the rich white suburbs.
Hey here's an idea. How about you read some articles and tips, FIRST. And THEN post threads whining and complaining?

Because they question that you're asking shows that you've put zero effort into actually reading the information on this site.

Come back in a month. Bye.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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