"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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I think it's worse (and potentially more common?) when women pretend they AREN'T using sex as a carrot/stick tool.

If hubby does something she likes, she is suddenly "horny." But if hubby isn't doing what she wants, she is suddenly too tired/not in the mood etc. So she can maintain plausible deniability. There is no way to prove that she is deliberately "holding sex over his head."

I have a buddy that says wifey rarely wants sex unless he plans a vacation. Then she screws his brains out at the hotel. Of course, one could just argue that people feel more sexy, relaxed, and in the mood on vacation; so again, it's perfect plausible deniability.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think it's worse (and potentially more common?) when women pretend they AREN'T using sex as a carrot/stick tool.

If hubby does something she likes, she is suddenly "horny." But if hubby isn't doing what she wants, she is suddenly too tired/not in the mood etc. So she can maintain plausible deniability. There is no way to prove that she is deliberately "holding sex over his head."

I have a buddy that says wifey rarely wants sex unless he plans a vacation. Then she screws his brains out at the hotel. Of course, one could just argue that people feel more sexy, relaxed, and in the mood on vacation; so again, it's perfect plausible deniability.
Poor soul marrying that women, its basically a reconditioning to a man to accept thats normal for him, its actually a control machanisme. A lot of dude falling for this trap, and continue living an unfulfilled marriage.
 

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Poor soul marrying that women, its basically a reconditioning to a man to accept thats normal for him, its actually a control machanisme. A lot of dude falling for this trap, and continue living an unfulfilled marriage.
Its basically prostitution. She got with him because he could provide those things. There is probably other men that she'd desire without them using money.
 

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Its basically prostitution. She got with him because he could provide those things. There is probably other men that she'd desire without them using money.
Isnt probably, women love secks as much as men, theres someone on the side.. Always.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Isnt probably, women love secks as much as men, theres someone on the side.. Always.
No they don't. Oh, they still like it, but for the most part, they can put up with not having it much moreso than men do, and hence men always fold; yes, post-wall women might want it more as they realize that hubby is not as horny as he used to be.
 

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I seem to get the best reaction by entering per spooning; I don't think the gals that had exclaimed "uuuh" were faking it.
She wasn't. But if your good in the sack and she wants to shrink your head with a "well I've had bigger" you know what it's really about.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No they don't. Oh, they still like it, but for the most part, they can put up with not having it much moreso than men do, and hence men always fold; yes, post-wall women might want it more as they realize that hubby is not as horny as he used to be.
And hows depriving secks to her man be benificial to her desires? Unless her needs sated elsewhere.
 

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Because they can outlast the man.
Not always true. Some can keep fvcking till lube dries up and she will be beat up and swollen down there. Painful even to the touch. Its not to say women can't last. They can. But some men can last long enough till sex isn't pleasant anymore.
 

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Not always true. Some can keep fvcking till lube dries up and she will be beat up and swollen down there. Painful even to the touch. Its not to say women can't last. They can. But some men can last long enough till sex isn't pleasant anymore.
Kinda reminds me the last girl i rocked so hard and her buldging.. Lol.. She break out 14 times in a night.legs shaken, Must be movement control effect.
 

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Kinda reminds me the last girl i rocked so hard and her buldging.. Lol.. She break out 14 times in a night.legs shaken, Must be movement control effect.
Yes. It can be worked enough that they need a day off. For most women if you hit it good nearly daily it's unlikely shes sliding another c0ck in there.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes. It can be worked enough that they need a day off. For most women if you hit it good nearly daily it's unlikely shes sliding another c0ck in there.
Especially an attractive girl even shes just cute with options wont cave in when it comes to pleasure for long.
 

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Especially an attractive girl even shes just cute with options wont cave in when it comes to pleasure for long.
They just like running their mouth. If your the c0ck they want in there and you hit it all the time your probably will be fine. Its the mans job to focus on his life to keep growing and keep getting better. Change things up for her. Travel with her. Make it fun. We can keep it going for a long time.
 

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*pulls out beef jerky while looking at her*
Tell me more
*bites a piece*
 
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