"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think it's worse (and potentially more common?) when women pretend they AREN'T using sex as a carrot/stick tool.

If hubby does something she likes, she is suddenly "horny." But if hubby isn't doing what she wants, she is suddenly too tired/not in the mood etc. So she can maintain plausible deniability. There is no way to prove that she is deliberately "holding sex over his head."

I have a buddy that says wifey rarely wants sex unless he plans a vacation. Then she screws his brains out at the hotel. Of course, one could just argue that people feel more sexy, relaxed, and in the mood on vacation; so again, it's perfect plausible deniability.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think it's worse (and potentially more common?) when women pretend they AREN'T using sex as a carrot/stick tool.

If hubby does something she likes, she is suddenly "horny." But if hubby isn't doing what she wants, she is suddenly too tired/not in the mood etc. So she can maintain plausible deniability. There is no way to prove that she is deliberately "holding sex over his head."

I have a buddy that says wifey rarely wants sex unless he plans a vacation. Then she screws his brains out at the hotel. Of course, one could just argue that people feel more sexy, relaxed, and in the mood on vacation; so again, it's perfect plausible deniability.
Poor soul marrying that women, its basically a reconditioning to a man to accept thats normal for him, its actually a control machanisme. A lot of dude falling for this trap, and continue living an unfulfilled marriage.
 

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Poor soul marrying that women, its basically a reconditioning to a man to accept thats normal for him, its actually a control machanisme. A lot of dude falling for this trap, and continue living an unfulfilled marriage.
Its basically prostitution. She got with him because he could provide those things. There is probably other men that she'd desire without them using money.
 

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Its basically prostitution. She got with him because he could provide those things. There is probably other men that she'd desire without them using money.
Isnt probably, women love secks as much as men, theres someone on the side.. Always.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Isnt probably, women love secks as much as men, theres someone on the side.. Always.
No they don't. Oh, they still like it, but for the most part, they can put up with not having it much moreso than men do, and hence men always fold; yes, post-wall women might want it more as they realize that hubby is not as horny as he used to be.
 

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I seem to get the best reaction by entering per spooning; I don't think the gals that had exclaimed "uuuh" were faking it.
She wasn't. But if your good in the sack and she wants to shrink your head with a "well I've had bigger" you know what it's really about.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No they don't. Oh, they still like it, but for the most part, they can put up with not having it much moreso than men do, and hence men always fold; yes, post-wall women might want it more as they realize that hubby is not as horny as he used to be.
And hows depriving secks to her man be benificial to her desires? Unless her needs sated elsewhere.
 

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Because they can outlast the man.
Not always true. Some can keep fvcking till lube dries up and she will be beat up and swollen down there. Painful even to the touch. Its not to say women can't last. They can. But some men can last long enough till sex isn't pleasant anymore.
 

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Not always true. Some can keep fvcking till lube dries up and she will be beat up and swollen down there. Painful even to the touch. Its not to say women can't last. They can. But some men can last long enough till sex isn't pleasant anymore.
Kinda reminds me the last girl i rocked so hard and her buldging.. Lol.. She break out 14 times in a night.legs shaken, Must be movement control effect.
 

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Kinda reminds me the last girl i rocked so hard and her buldging.. Lol.. She break out 14 times in a night.legs shaken, Must be movement control effect.
Yes. It can be worked enough that they need a day off. For most women if you hit it good nearly daily it's unlikely shes sliding another c0ck in there.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes. It can be worked enough that they need a day off. For most women if you hit it good nearly daily it's unlikely shes sliding another c0ck in there.
Especially an attractive girl even shes just cute with options wont cave in when it comes to pleasure for long.
 

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Especially an attractive girl even shes just cute with options wont cave in when it comes to pleasure for long.
They just like running their mouth. If your the c0ck they want in there and you hit it all the time your probably will be fine. Its the mans job to focus on his life to keep growing and keep getting better. Change things up for her. Travel with her. Make it fun. We can keep it going for a long time.
 

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*pulls out beef jerky while looking at her*
Tell me more
*bites a piece*
 
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