"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think it's worse (and potentially more common?) when women pretend they AREN'T using sex as a carrot/stick tool.

If hubby does something she likes, she is suddenly "horny." But if hubby isn't doing what she wants, she is suddenly too tired/not in the mood etc. So she can maintain plausible deniability. There is no way to prove that she is deliberately "holding sex over his head."

I have a buddy that says wifey rarely wants sex unless he plans a vacation. Then she screws his brains out at the hotel. Of course, one could just argue that people feel more sexy, relaxed, and in the mood on vacation; so again, it's perfect plausible deniability.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think it's worse (and potentially more common?) when women pretend they AREN'T using sex as a carrot/stick tool.

If hubby does something she likes, she is suddenly "horny." But if hubby isn't doing what she wants, she is suddenly too tired/not in the mood etc. So she can maintain plausible deniability. There is no way to prove that she is deliberately "holding sex over his head."

I have a buddy that says wifey rarely wants sex unless he plans a vacation. Then she screws his brains out at the hotel. Of course, one could just argue that people feel more sexy, relaxed, and in the mood on vacation; so again, it's perfect plausible deniability.
Poor soul marrying that women, its basically a reconditioning to a man to accept thats normal for him, its actually a control machanisme. A lot of dude falling for this trap, and continue living an unfulfilled marriage.
 

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Poor soul marrying that women, its basically a reconditioning to a man to accept thats normal for him, its actually a control machanisme. A lot of dude falling for this trap, and continue living an unfulfilled marriage.
Its basically prostitution. She got with him because he could provide those things. There is probably other men that she'd desire without them using money.
 

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Its basically prostitution. She got with him because he could provide those things. There is probably other men that she'd desire without them using money.
Isnt probably, women love secks as much as men, theres someone on the side.. Always.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Isnt probably, women love secks as much as men, theres someone on the side.. Always.
No they don't. Oh, they still like it, but for the most part, they can put up with not having it much moreso than men do, and hence men always fold; yes, post-wall women might want it more as they realize that hubby is not as horny as he used to be.
 

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I seem to get the best reaction by entering per spooning; I don't think the gals that had exclaimed "uuuh" were faking it.
She wasn't. But if your good in the sack and she wants to shrink your head with a "well I've had bigger" you know what it's really about.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No they don't. Oh, they still like it, but for the most part, they can put up with not having it much moreso than men do, and hence men always fold; yes, post-wall women might want it more as they realize that hubby is not as horny as he used to be.
And hows depriving secks to her man be benificial to her desires? Unless her needs sated elsewhere.
 

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Because they can outlast the man.
Not always true. Some can keep fvcking till lube dries up and she will be beat up and swollen down there. Painful even to the touch. Its not to say women can't last. They can. But some men can last long enough till sex isn't pleasant anymore.
 

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Not always true. Some can keep fvcking till lube dries up and she will be beat up and swollen down there. Painful even to the touch. Its not to say women can't last. They can. But some men can last long enough till sex isn't pleasant anymore.
Kinda reminds me the last girl i rocked so hard and her buldging.. Lol.. She break out 14 times in a night.legs shaken, Must be movement control effect.
 

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Kinda reminds me the last girl i rocked so hard and her buldging.. Lol.. She break out 14 times in a night.legs shaken, Must be movement control effect.
Yes. It can be worked enough that they need a day off. For most women if you hit it good nearly daily it's unlikely shes sliding another c0ck in there.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes. It can be worked enough that they need a day off. For most women if you hit it good nearly daily it's unlikely shes sliding another c0ck in there.
Especially an attractive girl even shes just cute with options wont cave in when it comes to pleasure for long.
 

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Especially an attractive girl even shes just cute with options wont cave in when it comes to pleasure for long.
They just like running their mouth. If your the c0ck they want in there and you hit it all the time your probably will be fine. Its the mans job to focus on his life to keep growing and keep getting better. Change things up for her. Travel with her. Make it fun. We can keep it going for a long time.
 

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*pulls out beef jerky while looking at her*
Tell me more
*bites a piece*
 
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