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Master Don Juan
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I'm sure the reason is that women are doing so good that it would be a waste of time...right?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That's because you are not a Chad to them or they can pick up you are not popular with women and they are busy on their smartphones with social media/texting when they are on break-time. Unless you are better looking then the guys she has access to online then she doesn't care how she's treating you. I guarantee you if you monitor these women they will treat Chad-like customers or people they personally like way better. In fact, great customer service from a lady is almost like an AI/IOI and she's being nice with you with the hope that you might ask for her number.Never seen a friendly women in a workplace. Even in grocery store or supermarkets most of them are mean and hurry to give you a random advice so you can fuk off.
Yeah but there is no "dynamics" involved there unless either party is gay.Crown said:On the other hand, very time I ask a male worker something about a specific product, they stay 5 to 10 minutes with me just to be sure I have the product that I needed.
Social media is to women like porn is to guys LOL a lot of them probably get off on the attention.That's because you are not a Chad to them or they can pick up you are not popular with women and they are busy on their smartphones with social media/texting when they are on break-time. Unless you are better looking then the guys she has access to online then she doesn't care how she's treating you. I guarantee you if you monitor these women they will treat Chad-like customers or people they personally like way better. In fact, great customer service from a lady is almost like an AI/IOI and she's being nice with you with the hope that you might ask for her number.
Yeah but there is no "dynamics" involved there unless either party is gay.