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Master Don Juan
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I'm sure the reason is that women are doing so good that it would be a waste of time...right?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That's because you are not a Chad to them or they can pick up you are not popular with women and they are busy on their smartphones with social media/texting when they are on break-time. Unless you are better looking then the guys she has access to online then she doesn't care how she's treating you. I guarantee you if you monitor these women they will treat Chad-like customers or people they personally like way better. In fact, great customer service from a lady is almost like an AI/IOI and she's being nice with you with the hope that you might ask for her number.Never seen a friendly women in a workplace. Even in grocery store or supermarkets most of them are mean and hurry to give you a random advice so you can fuk off.
Yeah but there is no "dynamics" involved there unless either party is gay.Crown said:On the other hand, very time I ask a male worker something about a specific product, they stay 5 to 10 minutes with me just to be sure I have the product that I needed.
Social media is to women like porn is to guys LOL a lot of them probably get off on the attention.That's because you are not a Chad to them or they can pick up you are not popular with women and they are busy on their smartphones with social media/texting when they are on break-time. Unless you are better looking then the guys she has access to online then she doesn't care how she's treating you. I guarantee you if you monitor these women they will treat Chad-like customers or people they personally like way better. In fact, great customer service from a lady is almost like an AI/IOI and she's being nice with you with the hope that you might ask for her number.
Yeah but there is no "dynamics" involved there unless either party is gay.