"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Male managers now less likely to mentor women

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I'm sure the reason is that women are doing so good that it would be a waste of time...right?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I love the part about some female Google employees not being able to go to work the next day.
 

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problem is most men will not put himself on harm way for a unknown, plus woman in general are bad workers.

just ask this, if I miss a day of work I know very well there will be that day I missed of work together with the next day work to be done, even teh ahrd working woman have a hard undertanding of this, maybe because someone will do her work for her, but when that is not the case she will complain saying its "unfair", also woman are more likely to miss a day of work for "medical" reasons and are likely to schedule her medic going during work time, when guys mostly if they go at all is during off work

men normally have better work ethics too, so in the end why risk yourself for a woman?
 

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It needed a widespreab bragging or female accusations (most of whom fake) to wake up the average frustrated chump...till now they were all running to help and support women for no other merit than being women.

Their crappy work ethics, lack of honor or low results apparently were not enough.
 

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Never seen a friendly women in a workplace. Even in grocery store or supermarkets most of them are mean and hurry to give you a random advice so you can fuk off.
On the other hand, very time I ask a male worker something about a specific product, they stay 5 to 10 minutes with me just to be sure I have the product that I needed.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Never seen a friendly women in a workplace. Even in grocery store or supermarkets most of them are mean and hurry to give you a random advice so you can fuk off.
That's because you are not a Chad to them or they can pick up you are not popular with women and they are busy on their smartphones with social media/texting when they are on break-time. Unless you are better looking then the guys she has access to online then she doesn't care how she's treating you. I guarantee you if you monitor these women they will treat Chad-like customers or people they personally like way better. In fact, great customer service from a lady is almost like an AI/IOI and she's being nice with you with the hope that you might ask for her number.

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On the other hand, very time I ask a male worker something about a specific product, they stay 5 to 10 minutes with me just to be sure I have the product that I needed.
Yeah but there is no "dynamics" involved there unless either party is gay.
 

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My Uncle worked for a firm for a long time, and helped this place with their accounting software and was a real asset to the company. Fast forward, he trained a hot woman there in the job and he was let go and she replaced him. Today he's in a nursing home because life has dealt him one to many hard blows.
 

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That's because you are not a Chad to them or they can pick up you are not popular with women and they are busy on their smartphones with social media/texting when they are on break-time. Unless you are better looking then the guys she has access to online then she doesn't care how she's treating you. I guarantee you if you monitor these women they will treat Chad-like customers or people they personally like way better. In fact, great customer service from a lady is almost like an AI/IOI and she's being nice with you with the hope that you might ask for her number.



Yeah but there is no "dynamics" involved there unless either party is gay.
Social media is to women like porn is to guys LOL a lot of them probably get off on the attention.
 
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