"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm sure the reason is that women are doing so good that it would be a waste of time...right?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I love the part about some female Google employees not being able to go to work the next day.
 

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problem is most men will not put himself on harm way for a unknown, plus woman in general are bad workers.

just ask this, if I miss a day of work I know very well there will be that day I missed of work together with the next day work to be done, even teh ahrd working woman have a hard undertanding of this, maybe because someone will do her work for her, but when that is not the case she will complain saying its "unfair", also woman are more likely to miss a day of work for "medical" reasons and are likely to schedule her medic going during work time, when guys mostly if they go at all is during off work

men normally have better work ethics too, so in the end why risk yourself for a woman?
 

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It needed a widespreab bragging or female accusations (most of whom fake) to wake up the average frustrated chump...till now they were all running to help and support women for no other merit than being women.

Their crappy work ethics, lack of honor or low results apparently were not enough.
 

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Never seen a friendly women in a workplace. Even in grocery store or supermarkets most of them are mean and hurry to give you a random advice so you can fuk off.
On the other hand, very time I ask a male worker something about a specific product, they stay 5 to 10 minutes with me just to be sure I have the product that I needed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Never seen a friendly women in a workplace. Even in grocery store or supermarkets most of them are mean and hurry to give you a random advice so you can fuk off.
That's because you are not a Chad to them or they can pick up you are not popular with women and they are busy on their smartphones with social media/texting when they are on break-time. Unless you are better looking then the guys she has access to online then she doesn't care how she's treating you. I guarantee you if you monitor these women they will treat Chad-like customers or people they personally like way better. In fact, great customer service from a lady is almost like an AI/IOI and she's being nice with you with the hope that you might ask for her number.

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On the other hand, very time I ask a male worker something about a specific product, they stay 5 to 10 minutes with me just to be sure I have the product that I needed.
Yeah but there is no "dynamics" involved there unless either party is gay.
 

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My Uncle worked for a firm for a long time, and helped this place with their accounting software and was a real asset to the company. Fast forward, he trained a hot woman there in the job and he was let go and she replaced him. Today he's in a nursing home because life has dealt him one to many hard blows.
 

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That's because you are not a Chad to them or they can pick up you are not popular with women and they are busy on their smartphones with social media/texting when they are on break-time. Unless you are better looking then the guys she has access to online then she doesn't care how she's treating you. I guarantee you if you monitor these women they will treat Chad-like customers or people they personally like way better. In fact, great customer service from a lady is almost like an AI/IOI and she's being nice with you with the hope that you might ask for her number.



Yeah but there is no "dynamics" involved there unless either party is gay.
Social media is to women like porn is to guys LOL a lot of them probably get off on the attention.
 
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