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Master Don Juan
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I'm sure the reason is that women are doing so good that it would be a waste of time...right?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That's because you are not a Chad to them or they can pick up you are not popular with women and they are busy on their smartphones with social media/texting when they are on break-time. Unless you are better looking then the guys she has access to online then she doesn't care how she's treating you. I guarantee you if you monitor these women they will treat Chad-like customers or people they personally like way better. In fact, great customer service from a lady is almost like an AI/IOI and she's being nice with you with the hope that you might ask for her number.Never seen a friendly women in a workplace. Even in grocery store or supermarkets most of them are mean and hurry to give you a random advice so you can fuk off.
Yeah but there is no "dynamics" involved there unless either party is gay.Crown said:On the other hand, very time I ask a male worker something about a specific product, they stay 5 to 10 minutes with me just to be sure I have the product that I needed.
Social media is to women like porn is to guys LOL a lot of them probably get off on the attention.That's because you are not a Chad to them or they can pick up you are not popular with women and they are busy on their smartphones with social media/texting when they are on break-time. Unless you are better looking then the guys she has access to online then she doesn't care how she's treating you. I guarantee you if you monitor these women they will treat Chad-like customers or people they personally like way better. In fact, great customer service from a lady is almost like an AI/IOI and she's being nice with you with the hope that you might ask for her number.
Yeah but there is no "dynamics" involved there unless either party is gay.