Lost my vibe.

[andy87]

Good day folks, for the last 3 or 4 months or so I feel like I've lost my vibe, before when I would go out I would get hit on by girls regularly talk to girls etc but recently that hasn't been happening, something i off but can't put my finger on it I haven't changed physically, anyone else experienced this?

 

[evan12]

Good day folks, for the last 3 or 4 months or so I feel like I've lost my vibe, before when I would go out I would get hit on by girls regularly talk to girls etc but recently that hasn't been happening, something i off but can't put my finger on it I haven't changed physically, anyone else experienced this?

Maybe you look sad or worried? try to see what kind of message your face is sending.

 

[RazorRambo24]

You're lacking self confidence is whats happening. When you're seeking validation, you look around for cues that girls are interested, etc.. and you often dont find it. But when you're in a state of confidence and self assuredness, you look around and see girls glancing at you from every direction.. and even if you're aware that some girls are just noticing you rather than staring, theres always girls taht you dont catch when the're actually checking you out until you end up face to face with them and naturally sht happens.

Try going out and just enjoying the night rather than thinking about women..

 

[Reauxshambreaux]

You're lacking self confidence is whats happening. When you're seeking validation, you look around for cues that girls are interested, etc.. and you often dont find it. But when you're in a state of confidence and self assuredness, you look around and see girls glancing at you from every direction.. and even if you're aware that some girls are just noticing you rather than staring, theres always girls taht you dont catch when the're actually checking you out until you end up face to face with them and naturally sht happens.

Try going out and just enjoying the night rather than thinking about women..

Great advice. Also check your horoscope.

 

[corrector]

You got old.

 

[Dr.Suave]

It happens. Dont overthink it and always keep improving.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Here's some motivation. nothing like a plate cooking for you in panties.. Hopefully you find your confidence back and find a plate you can smash on the regular. one that stays longer than a year lol

 

[corrector]

Here's some motivation. nothing like a plate cooking for you in panties.. Hopefully you find your confidence back and find a plate you can smash on the regular. one that stays longer than a year lol

The fart smell mixed with food is ruining the mood though.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

The fart smell mixed with food is ruining the mood though.

You never mix ass with food.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Here's some motivation. nothing like a plate cooking for you in panties.. Hopefully you find your confidence back and find a plate you can smash on the regular. one that stays longer than a year lol

Damn bro! This is great

 

[Bokanovsky]

The fart smell mixed with food is ruining the mood though.

You could always get back in the mood by jerking off in the back of your mom's car (while she's driving)

 

[Gamisch]

Good day folks, for the last 3 or 4 months or so I feel like I've lost my vibe, before when I would go out I would get hit on by girls regularly talk to girls etc but recently that hasn't been happening, something i off but can't put my finger on it I haven't changed physically, anyone else experienced this?

This is the problem many men will face when living the bachelor party lifestyle. Not only will it be detrimental for your physical appearance, there's also the mental issues like these that might appear.

You gotta be smart about it and always keep some women in your rotation. Do you see any women at all right now? I am not gonna lie, I felt something similar recently. It's the clearest sign you can get that you are too much dependent upon women. 3/4 months shouldn't be a huge problem IF you are confident enough and know sooner or later you'll pull a new one.

Even women HB8 and higher go through this occasionally. Its time for some introspection my brother.

 

[corrector]

You could always get back in the mood by jerking off in the back of your mom's car (while she's driving)

You need therapy.

 

[Bokanovsky]

You need therapy.

Why would *I* need therapy? You are the one who made a post about doing THAT.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Good day folks, for the last 3 or 4 months or so I feel like I've lost my vibe, before when I would go out I would get hit on by girls regularly talk to girls etc but recently that hasn't been happening, something i off but can't put my finger on it I haven't changed physically, anyone else experienced this?

Self confidence will be a massive problem and i am facing something similar in my own life

BUT there is a wider issue at play and that is after a decade of heavy social media exposure most people (especially those under 30 ) aren't really sure HOW to act in the real world anymore

This leads to a lot of (unnecessary ) awkwardness and people making themselves appear to be closed off

The good news is most of it can be solved but literally throwing yourself out there , just randomly striking conversations up with people is a great help

I find the worst part is just getting over that first hurdle of breaking the ice and doing an introduction

 

[corrector]

Why would *I* need therapy? You are the one who made a post about doing THAT.

What are you talking about?

 

[Pedrito0906]

Good day folks, for the last 3 or 4 months or so I feel like I've lost my vibe, before when I would go out I would get hit on by girls regularly talk to girls etc but recently that hasn't been happening, something i off but can't put my finger on it I haven't changed physically, anyone else experienced this?

Do a testosterone and free test blood work to see your levels. In this age after 30 men start expecting symptoms of low T, Imy levels were low a year ago when I was 32, search for low T symptoms and see if you have them.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Good day folks, for the last 3 or 4 months or so I feel like I've lost my vibe, before when I would go out I would get hit on by girls regularly talk to girls etc but recently that hasn't been happening, something i off but can't put my finger on it I haven't changed physically, anyone else experienced this?

Life is pretty random. Sometimes I can’t buy a smile. Other times I hit gold. I have no explanation.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Damn bro! This is great

Thank you. Hoping it gives the OP some motivation lol.. but judging by alot of these responses, he'll prob not come back lol

 

[dueler-x]

Good day folks, for the last 3 or 4 months or so I feel like I've lost my vibe, before when I would go out I would get hit on by girls regularly talk to girls etc but recently that hasn't been happening, something i off but can't put my finger on it I haven't changed physically, anyone else experienced this?

We need more data, but we also pass a wall which we are less attractive to younger women.