"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Lost 40 Pounds (18 kg) - picture (opinions/critiques welcome)

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marmel75

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You are about 18% bodyfat.

Yoi cant really build muscle on a cut, but keep lifting to maintain what you do have.

Keep cutting down to 10-12% (should take you 12-14 weeks) then start a lean bulking phase for at least a year.

Oh, also please figure out your caloric requirements and nutrition partitioning. That diet pains me to look at.

Outside of that great job man.
Of course you can build muscle while losing bodyfat, that is just silliness to suggest otherwise. The key to that is to lift relatively heavy weights while eating a higher amount of protein.

Especially when just starting out, it's much easier for them.

I'd recommend doing the Stronglifts 5 x 5 program, it will give you a good base with compound exercises that will actually make a difference. Eat plenty of protein and sleep 8-9 hours a night. For the first 3 months I'd recommend eating 1.5-2g of protein per pound of lean bodyweight, dropping to 1.25-1.5g after that for the next 3 months and then down to 1g per pound of lean bodyweight after that.
 

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Of course you can build muscle while losing bodyfat, that is just silliness to suggest otherwise. The key to that is to lift relatively heavy weights while eating a higher amount of protein.

Especially when just starting out, it's much easier for them.

I'd recommend doing the Stronglifts 5 x 5 program, it will give you a good base with compound exercises that will actually make a difference. Eat plenty of protein and sleep 8-9 hours a night. For the first 3 months I'd recommend eating 1.5-2g of protein per pound of lean bodyweight, dropping to 1.25-1.5g after that for the next 3 months and then down to 1g per pound of lean bodyweight after that.
Noobs can build some negligable muscle on a cut but nothing worth noting.

Stronglifts 5x5 is a good program for building strength but i personally would either use a straight hypertrophy rep range, ive seen a lot of dudes stall on stronglifts for months, its also wasy to get injured because you are lifting too heavy too soon before your stabalizers build up, i got injured twice on SL because i was squatting and deadlifting ridiculous weight within a couple of months.

Pryamid sets 12-10-8-6 is the way to go, i got far better gains.

Id also say you need no more than 1gm protein per lb. Again i spent months on 1.5gm before i dropped to .75gm per lb and replaced the rest with carbs.

I felt much stronger in the gym, and geavier weight plus more reps = growth.

But thats just my advice fellas
 

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Looks like two different people. Hats off to you.
Thanks!
Great job losing the weight but I would expect leaner and more muscular results since you're training with weights and doing cardio 6xs a week. The diet you outlined looks solid but per other posters I'd estimate your BF at 15-20%.

Are your workouts intense and challenging?
They are. I've been reading a bit, and (now) 45 pounds is apparently a lot to lose in 3 months. I think I'm doing pretty good :D

I'll post a progress pic in a couple months and we'll see what kind of difference there is.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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