"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lost 40 Pounds (18 kg) - picture (opinions/critiques welcome)

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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marmel75

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You are about 18% bodyfat.

Yoi cant really build muscle on a cut, but keep lifting to maintain what you do have.

Keep cutting down to 10-12% (should take you 12-14 weeks) then start a lean bulking phase for at least a year.

Oh, also please figure out your caloric requirements and nutrition partitioning. That diet pains me to look at.

Outside of that great job man.
Of course you can build muscle while losing bodyfat, that is just silliness to suggest otherwise. The key to that is to lift relatively heavy weights while eating a higher amount of protein.

Especially when just starting out, it's much easier for them.

I'd recommend doing the Stronglifts 5 x 5 program, it will give you a good base with compound exercises that will actually make a difference. Eat plenty of protein and sleep 8-9 hours a night. For the first 3 months I'd recommend eating 1.5-2g of protein per pound of lean bodyweight, dropping to 1.25-1.5g after that for the next 3 months and then down to 1g per pound of lean bodyweight after that.
 

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Of course you can build muscle while losing bodyfat, that is just silliness to suggest otherwise. The key to that is to lift relatively heavy weights while eating a higher amount of protein.

Especially when just starting out, it's much easier for them.

I'd recommend doing the Stronglifts 5 x 5 program, it will give you a good base with compound exercises that will actually make a difference. Eat plenty of protein and sleep 8-9 hours a night. For the first 3 months I'd recommend eating 1.5-2g of protein per pound of lean bodyweight, dropping to 1.25-1.5g after that for the next 3 months and then down to 1g per pound of lean bodyweight after that.
Noobs can build some negligable muscle on a cut but nothing worth noting.

Stronglifts 5x5 is a good program for building strength but i personally would either use a straight hypertrophy rep range, ive seen a lot of dudes stall on stronglifts for months, its also wasy to get injured because you are lifting too heavy too soon before your stabalizers build up, i got injured twice on SL because i was squatting and deadlifting ridiculous weight within a couple of months.

Pryamid sets 12-10-8-6 is the way to go, i got far better gains.

Id also say you need no more than 1gm protein per lb. Again i spent months on 1.5gm before i dropped to .75gm per lb and replaced the rest with carbs.

I felt much stronger in the gym, and geavier weight plus more reps = growth.

But thats just my advice fellas
 

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Looks like two different people. Hats off to you.
Thanks!
Great job losing the weight but I would expect leaner and more muscular results since you're training with weights and doing cardio 6xs a week. The diet you outlined looks solid but per other posters I'd estimate your BF at 15-20%.

Are your workouts intense and challenging?
They are. I've been reading a bit, and (now) 45 pounds is apparently a lot to lose in 3 months. I think I'm doing pretty good :D

I'll post a progress pic in a couple months and we'll see what kind of difference there is.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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