"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i just wanted to update everyone about the chat room. a change has been made to the room. you must now pm me with your email address, so that an invite can be sent to your email account allowing you access to the room. if you have already done this and have been invited before, you should have no problem logging in. if you have not been invited, you will need to be in order to log in. we are hoping that this will help to rid some of the problems that we have recently experienced concerning a few trolls. i am sorry for any inconvenience, but hope that you will return to the chat room anyway.

tonight's topic is "where do i spend my tax refund?"

next sunday night's topic is "guys way beyond afc.. with mikeyikes as chat leader."

we are also encouraging other members to set up their own time slots with chat topics. members have requested that someone lead chat during the evening on the topic of general fitness. warboss alex was doing this, however we have not heard from him in quite some time.
another thing members are wanting is for someone to come into the chat room and set time slots for topics during the day time hours.

our goal is to have a schedule such as the following example :
monday 10am coffee talk
1pm free yourself from the matrix
6pm general fitness
8 pm peacocking 101
midnight late night with whoever
tuesday 10am coffee talk
1pm ltr talk
6pm general fitness
8pm bootcamp
midnight late night with whoever
wednesday 10am coffee talk
1pm positive attitudes
6pm general fitness
8pm redine yourself
midnight late night with whoever

etc for each night of the week

sunday night at 9pm will still be the weekly round table that many have come to love and look forward to topics that change each and every week.

we have people from all over the place popping in and out missing each other, so the number one complaint is that they can not find anyone in chat when they can chat. so if you have a topic that you feel needs to be discussed weekly or have knowledge in an area and can be in the chat during a certain time frame... chime in and let us know.

the goal is for everyone that wants to participate in live real time chat, to be able to with time frames and topics set up for those interested in participating.

feel free to contact me with any concerns or questions.
 

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I can't get in.
It doesn't recognize my pasword.
edit
NVM. getting a pw now.
 

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Interceptor said:
I can't get in.
It doesn't recognize my pasword.
edit
NVM. getting a pw now.
it shouldnt have a password, and you have been invited so it should let you in. let me know if this continues.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LovelyLady said:
I tried my password 3 times - it's not working... AAARGH!
you should be able to get in too
let me know if it doesnt let you in
 

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come on in for sunday night chat tonight's topic: guys way beyond afc.. with mikeyikes as chat leader
 

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next sundays topic 3-9-08
Dating non-exclusively with redpill as chatleader
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I can't join the chat anymore for some reason...
 

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Hm I got in

I registered

Now I can't get back in.

Now it says I need an administrator password?
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
Hm I got in

I registered

Now I can't get back in.

Now it says I need an administrator password?
you should not need one.
pm me your email addy and i will send you an invite back into chat.
 

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It's on.

Click the link on the first page of this thread to join in if you've registered. If not, PM penkitten.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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3/9/08 Chat Wrap

This past chat on non-exclusive dating (and boobs, and jackbauer's hate-fest with his ex :) ) was the most successful chat to date in terms of both participation and productive discussion. Thank you to everyone who stopped in and took part. :up:

Hopefully we can continue to improve these events so that they're both entertaining and meaningful discussions. If you have any feedback, advice, or suggestions, feel free to share them here.

One point of clarification, these chats "officially" start at 10:00 Eastern USA time (-5:00 GMT), though you're certainly welcome to arrive earlier or later, as the room is free. penkitten is the room admin, so if you have any issues related to accessing it, PM her.

Have a great week!
 

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gtown you were sent an invite for chat, you can edit your post above and remove your email addy if you want to .
 

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building your compelling reality

chat leader : redpill
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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