MacAvoy
Banned
wazzup wes?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Live SoSuave Chat
- Thread starter RedPill
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i just wanted to update everyone about the chat room. a change has been made to the room. you must now pm me with your email address, so that an invite can be sent to your email account allowing you access to the room. if you have already done this and have been invited before, you should have no problem logging in. if you have not been invited, you will need to be in order to log in. we are hoping that this will help to rid some of the problems that we have recently experienced concerning a few trolls. i am sorry for any inconvenience, but hope that you will return to the chat room anyway.
tonight's topic is "where do i spend my tax refund?"
next sunday night's topic is "guys way beyond afc.. with mikeyikes as chat leader."
we are also encouraging other members to set up their own time slots with chat topics. members have requested that someone lead chat during the evening on the topic of general fitness. warboss alex was doing this, however we have not heard from him in quite some time.
another thing members are wanting is for someone to come into the chat room and set time slots for topics during the day time hours.
our goal is to have a schedule such as the following example :
monday 10am coffee talk
1pm free yourself from the matrix
6pm general fitness
8 pm peacocking 101
midnight late night with whoever
tuesday 10am coffee talk
1pm ltr talk
6pm general fitness
8pm bootcamp
midnight late night with whoever
wednesday 10am coffee talk
1pm positive attitudes
6pm general fitness
8pm redine yourself
midnight late night with whoever
etc for each night of the week
sunday night at 9pm will still be the weekly round table that many have come to love and look forward to topics that change each and every week.
we have people from all over the place popping in and out missing each other, so the number one complaint is that they can not find anyone in chat when they can chat. so if you have a topic that you feel needs to be discussed weekly or have knowledge in an area and can be in the chat during a certain time frame... chime in and let us know.
the goal is for everyone that wants to participate in live real time chat, to be able to with time frames and topics set up for those interested in participating.
feel free to contact me with any concerns or questions.
tonight's topic is "where do i spend my tax refund?"
next sunday night's topic is "guys way beyond afc.. with mikeyikes as chat leader."
we are also encouraging other members to set up their own time slots with chat topics. members have requested that someone lead chat during the evening on the topic of general fitness. warboss alex was doing this, however we have not heard from him in quite some time.
another thing members are wanting is for someone to come into the chat room and set time slots for topics during the day time hours.
our goal is to have a schedule such as the following example :
monday 10am coffee talk
1pm free yourself from the matrix
6pm general fitness
8 pm peacocking 101
midnight late night with whoever
tuesday 10am coffee talk
1pm ltr talk
6pm general fitness
8pm bootcamp
midnight late night with whoever
wednesday 10am coffee talk
1pm positive attitudes
6pm general fitness
8pm redine yourself
midnight late night with whoever
etc for each night of the week
sunday night at 9pm will still be the weekly round table that many have come to love and look forward to topics that change each and every week.
we have people from all over the place popping in and out missing each other, so the number one complaint is that they can not find anyone in chat when they can chat. so if you have a topic that you feel needs to be discussed weekly or have knowledge in an area and can be in the chat during a certain time frame... chime in and let us know.
the goal is for everyone that wants to participate in live real time chat, to be able to with time frames and topics set up for those interested in participating.
feel free to contact me with any concerns or questions.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
I can't get in.
It doesn't recognize my pasword.
edit
NVM. getting a pw now.
It doesn't recognize my pasword.
edit
NVM. getting a pw now.
LovelyLady
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 7, 2007
- Messages
- 437
- Reaction score
- 41
I tried my password 3 times - it's not working... AAARGH!
penkitten
Master Don Juan
it shouldnt have a password, and you have been invited so it should let you in. let me know if this continues.Interceptor said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you should be able to get in tooLovelyLady said:
let me know if it doesnt let you in
MacAvoy
Banned
I'm in there now
Pen, how many people have registered with email now?
Pen, how many people have registered with email now?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
25 plus 1 for meMacAvoy said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
come on in for sunday night chat tonight's topic: guys way beyond afc.. with mikeyikes as chat leader
penkitten
Master Don Juan
next sundays topic 3-9-08
Dating non-exclusively with redpill as chatleader
Dating non-exclusively with redpill as chatleader
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you shouldChrizZ said:
i will re invite you
ThunderMaverick
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 19, 2004
- Messages
- 1,945
- Reaction score
- 70
- Age
- 45
Hm I got in
I registered
Now I can't get back in.
Now it says I need an administrator password?
I registered
Now I can't get back in.
Now it says I need an administrator password?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you should not need one.ThunderMaverick said:
pm me your email addy and i will send you an invite back into chat.
RedPill
Master Don Juan
It's on.
Click the link on the first page of this thread to join in if you've registered. If not, PM penkitten.
Click the link on the first page of this thread to join in if you've registered. If not, PM penkitten.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
RedPill
Master Don Juan
3/9/08 Chat Wrap
This past chat on non-exclusive dating (and boobs, and jackbauer's hate-fest with his ex ) was the most successful chat to date in terms of both participation and productive discussion. Thank you to everyone who stopped in and took part.
Hopefully we can continue to improve these events so that they're both entertaining and meaningful discussions. If you have any feedback, advice, or suggestions, feel free to share them here.
One point of clarification, these chats "officially" start at 10:00 Eastern USA time (-5:00 GMT), though you're certainly welcome to arrive earlier or later, as the room is free. penkitten is the room admin, so if you have any issues related to accessing it, PM her.
Have a great week!
This past chat on non-exclusive dating (and boobs, and jackbauer's hate-fest with his ex
) was the most successful chat to date in terms of both participation and productive discussion. Thank you to everyone who stopped in and took part. Hopefully we can continue to improve these events so that they're both entertaining and meaningful discussions. If you have any feedback, advice, or suggestions, feel free to share them here.
One point of clarification, these chats "officially" start at 10:00 Eastern USA time (-5:00 GMT), though you're certainly welcome to arrive earlier or later, as the room is free. penkitten is the room admin, so if you have any issues related to accessing it, PM her.
Have a great week!
penkitten
Master Don Juan
gtown you were sent an invite for chat, you can edit your post above and remove your email addy if you want to .
penkitten
Master Don Juan
tonights topic:
building your compelling reality
chat leader : redpill
building your compelling reality
chat leader : redpill
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.