Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i just wanted to update everyone about the chat room. a change has been made to the room. you must now pm me with your email address, so that an invite can be sent to your email account allowing you access to the room. if you have already done this and have been invited before, you should have no problem logging in. if you have not been invited, you will need to be in order to log in. we are hoping that this will help to rid some of the problems that we have recently experienced concerning a few trolls. i am sorry for any inconvenience, but hope that you will return to the chat room anyway.

tonight's topic is "where do i spend my tax refund?"

next sunday night's topic is "guys way beyond afc.. with mikeyikes as chat leader."

we are also encouraging other members to set up their own time slots with chat topics. members have requested that someone lead chat during the evening on the topic of general fitness. warboss alex was doing this, however we have not heard from him in quite some time.
another thing members are wanting is for someone to come into the chat room and set time slots for topics during the day time hours.

our goal is to have a schedule such as the following example :
monday 10am coffee talk
1pm free yourself from the matrix
6pm general fitness
8 pm peacocking 101
midnight late night with whoever
tuesday 10am coffee talk
1pm ltr talk
6pm general fitness
8pm bootcamp
midnight late night with whoever
wednesday 10am coffee talk
1pm positive attitudes
6pm general fitness
8pm redine yourself
midnight late night with whoever

etc for each night of the week

sunday night at 9pm will still be the weekly round table that many have come to love and look forward to topics that change each and every week.

we have people from all over the place popping in and out missing each other, so the number one complaint is that they can not find anyone in chat when they can chat. so if you have a topic that you feel needs to be discussed weekly or have knowledge in an area and can be in the chat during a certain time frame... chime in and let us know.

the goal is for everyone that wants to participate in live real time chat, to be able to with time frames and topics set up for those interested in participating.

feel free to contact me with any concerns or questions.
 

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I can't get in.
It doesn't recognize my pasword.
edit
NVM. getting a pw now.
 

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Interceptor said:
I can't get in.
It doesn't recognize my pasword.
edit
NVM. getting a pw now.
it shouldnt have a password, and you have been invited so it should let you in. let me know if this continues.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LovelyLady said:
I tried my password 3 times - it's not working... AAARGH!
you should be able to get in too
let me know if it doesnt let you in
 

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come on in for sunday night chat tonight's topic: guys way beyond afc.. with mikeyikes as chat leader
 

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next sundays topic 3-9-08
Dating non-exclusively with redpill as chatleader
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ChrizZ

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I can't join the chat anymore for some reason...
 

ThunderMaverick

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Hm I got in

I registered

Now I can't get back in.

Now it says I need an administrator password?
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
Hm I got in

I registered

Now I can't get back in.

Now it says I need an administrator password?
you should not need one.
pm me your email addy and i will send you an invite back into chat.
 

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It's on.

Click the link on the first page of this thread to join in if you've registered. If not, PM penkitten.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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3/9/08 Chat Wrap

This past chat on non-exclusive dating (and boobs, and jackbauer's hate-fest with his ex :) ) was the most successful chat to date in terms of both participation and productive discussion. Thank you to everyone who stopped in and took part. :up:

Hopefully we can continue to improve these events so that they're both entertaining and meaningful discussions. If you have any feedback, advice, or suggestions, feel free to share them here.

One point of clarification, these chats "officially" start at 10:00 Eastern USA time (-5:00 GMT), though you're certainly welcome to arrive earlier or later, as the room is free. penkitten is the room admin, so if you have any issues related to accessing it, PM her.

Have a great week!
 

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gtown you were sent an invite for chat, you can edit your post above and remove your email addy if you want to .
 

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tonights topic:

building your compelling reality

chat leader : redpill
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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