MacAvoy
Banned
wazzup wes?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Live SoSuave Chat
- Thread starter RedPill
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i just wanted to update everyone about the chat room. a change has been made to the room. you must now pm me with your email address, so that an invite can be sent to your email account allowing you access to the room. if you have already done this and have been invited before, you should have no problem logging in. if you have not been invited, you will need to be in order to log in. we are hoping that this will help to rid some of the problems that we have recently experienced concerning a few trolls. i am sorry for any inconvenience, but hope that you will return to the chat room anyway.
tonight's topic is "where do i spend my tax refund?"
next sunday night's topic is "guys way beyond afc.. with mikeyikes as chat leader."
we are also encouraging other members to set up their own time slots with chat topics. members have requested that someone lead chat during the evening on the topic of general fitness. warboss alex was doing this, however we have not heard from him in quite some time.
another thing members are wanting is for someone to come into the chat room and set time slots for topics during the day time hours.
our goal is to have a schedule such as the following example :
monday 10am coffee talk
1pm free yourself from the matrix
6pm general fitness
8 pm peacocking 101
midnight late night with whoever
tuesday 10am coffee talk
1pm ltr talk
6pm general fitness
8pm bootcamp
midnight late night with whoever
wednesday 10am coffee talk
1pm positive attitudes
6pm general fitness
8pm redine yourself
midnight late night with whoever
etc for each night of the week
sunday night at 9pm will still be the weekly round table that many have come to love and look forward to topics that change each and every week.
we have people from all over the place popping in and out missing each other, so the number one complaint is that they can not find anyone in chat when they can chat. so if you have a topic that you feel needs to be discussed weekly or have knowledge in an area and can be in the chat during a certain time frame... chime in and let us know.
the goal is for everyone that wants to participate in live real time chat, to be able to with time frames and topics set up for those interested in participating.
feel free to contact me with any concerns or questions.
tonight's topic is "where do i spend my tax refund?"
next sunday night's topic is "guys way beyond afc.. with mikeyikes as chat leader."
we are also encouraging other members to set up their own time slots with chat topics. members have requested that someone lead chat during the evening on the topic of general fitness. warboss alex was doing this, however we have not heard from him in quite some time.
another thing members are wanting is for someone to come into the chat room and set time slots for topics during the day time hours.
our goal is to have a schedule such as the following example :
monday 10am coffee talk
1pm free yourself from the matrix
6pm general fitness
8 pm peacocking 101
midnight late night with whoever
tuesday 10am coffee talk
1pm ltr talk
6pm general fitness
8pm bootcamp
midnight late night with whoever
wednesday 10am coffee talk
1pm positive attitudes
6pm general fitness
8pm redine yourself
midnight late night with whoever
etc for each night of the week
sunday night at 9pm will still be the weekly round table that many have come to love and look forward to topics that change each and every week.
we have people from all over the place popping in and out missing each other, so the number one complaint is that they can not find anyone in chat when they can chat. so if you have a topic that you feel needs to be discussed weekly or have knowledge in an area and can be in the chat during a certain time frame... chime in and let us know.
the goal is for everyone that wants to participate in live real time chat, to be able to with time frames and topics set up for those interested in participating.
feel free to contact me with any concerns or questions.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
I can't get in.
It doesn't recognize my pasword.
edit
NVM. getting a pw now.
It doesn't recognize my pasword.
edit
NVM. getting a pw now.
LovelyLady
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 7, 2007
- Messages
- 437
- Reaction score
- 41
I tried my password 3 times - it's not working... AAARGH!
penkitten
Master Don Juan
it shouldnt have a password, and you have been invited so it should let you in. let me know if this continues.Interceptor said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you should be able to get in tooLovelyLady said:
let me know if it doesnt let you in
MacAvoy
Banned
I'm in there now
Pen, how many people have registered with email now?
Pen, how many people have registered with email now?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
25 plus 1 for meMacAvoy said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
come on in for sunday night chat tonight's topic: guys way beyond afc.. with mikeyikes as chat leader
penkitten
Master Don Juan
next sundays topic 3-9-08
Dating non-exclusively with redpill as chatleader
Dating non-exclusively with redpill as chatleader
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you shouldChrizZ said:
i will re invite you
ThunderMaverick
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 19, 2004
- Messages
- 1,945
- Reaction score
- 70
- Age
- 45
Hm I got in
I registered
Now I can't get back in.
Now it says I need an administrator password?
I registered
Now I can't get back in.
Now it says I need an administrator password?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you should not need one.ThunderMaverick said:
pm me your email addy and i will send you an invite back into chat.
RedPill
Master Don Juan
It's on.
Click the link on the first page of this thread to join in if you've registered. If not, PM penkitten.
Click the link on the first page of this thread to join in if you've registered. If not, PM penkitten.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
RedPill
Master Don Juan
3/9/08 Chat Wrap
This past chat on non-exclusive dating (and boobs, and jackbauer's hate-fest with his ex ) was the most successful chat to date in terms of both participation and productive discussion. Thank you to everyone who stopped in and took part.
Hopefully we can continue to improve these events so that they're both entertaining and meaningful discussions. If you have any feedback, advice, or suggestions, feel free to share them here.
One point of clarification, these chats "officially" start at 10:00 Eastern USA time (-5:00 GMT), though you're certainly welcome to arrive earlier or later, as the room is free. penkitten is the room admin, so if you have any issues related to accessing it, PM her.
Have a great week!
This past chat on non-exclusive dating (and boobs, and jackbauer's hate-fest with his ex
) was the most successful chat to date in terms of both participation and productive discussion. Thank you to everyone who stopped in and took part. Hopefully we can continue to improve these events so that they're both entertaining and meaningful discussions. If you have any feedback, advice, or suggestions, feel free to share them here.
One point of clarification, these chats "officially" start at 10:00 Eastern USA time (-5:00 GMT), though you're certainly welcome to arrive earlier or later, as the room is free. penkitten is the room admin, so if you have any issues related to accessing it, PM her.
Have a great week!
penkitten
Master Don Juan
gtown you were sent an invite for chat, you can edit your post above and remove your email addy if you want to .
penkitten
Master Don Juan
tonights topic:
building your compelling reality
chat leader : redpill
building your compelling reality
chat leader : redpill
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.