How do you guys manage working, saving money at the same time have hobbies, wear nice clothes, stay healthy and meet beautiful women? I’m just having a hard time doing it. What is your routine like on weekdays and weekends, a little inspiration needed.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
andreihaha
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 24, 2019
- Messages
- 866
- Reaction score
- 830
- Age
- 33
You should consider making some sort of a budget.
Write down your income, subtract from that your monthly expenses and see what's left. Allocate the rest to what you need this month and try to respect your plan. Have some extra money for emergencies.
Excel is an easy tool for that.
Write down your income, subtract from that your monthly expenses and see what's left. Allocate the rest to what you need this month and try to respect your plan. Have some extra money for emergencies.
Excel is an easy tool for that.
zekko
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 6, 2009
- Messages
- 16,755
- Reaction score
- 9,953
Pay yourself first. And if you can set up a situation where your savings/investment money is automatically deducted so that you never actually see it, so much the better. Retirement accounts are good because they lower your overall taxable income, and they can grow without tax on the interest. As for the rest, it's a matter of priorities. Few people can have everything they want, so you have to decide what's most important to you.