How do you guys manage working, saving money at the same time have hobbies, wear nice clothes, stay healthy and meet beautiful women? I’m just having a hard time doing it. What is your routine like on weekdays and weekends, a little inspiration needed.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
andreihaha
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You should consider making some sort of a budget.
Write down your income, subtract from that your monthly expenses and see what's left. Allocate the rest to what you need this month and try to respect your plan. Have some extra money for emergencies.
Excel is an easy tool for that.
Write down your income, subtract from that your monthly expenses and see what's left. Allocate the rest to what you need this month and try to respect your plan. Have some extra money for emergencies.
Excel is an easy tool for that.
zekko
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Pay yourself first. And if you can set up a situation where your savings/investment money is automatically deducted so that you never actually see it, so much the better. Retirement accounts are good because they lower your overall taxable income, and they can grow without tax on the interest. As for the rest, it's a matter of priorities. Few people can have everything they want, so you have to decide what's most important to you.