How do you guys manage working, saving money at the same time have hobbies, wear nice clothes, stay healthy and meet beautiful women? I’m just having a hard time doing it. What is your routine like on weekdays and weekends, a little inspiration needed.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
andreihaha
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You should consider making some sort of a budget.
Write down your income, subtract from that your monthly expenses and see what's left. Allocate the rest to what you need this month and try to respect your plan. Have some extra money for emergencies.
Excel is an easy tool for that.
Write down your income, subtract from that your monthly expenses and see what's left. Allocate the rest to what you need this month and try to respect your plan. Have some extra money for emergencies.
Excel is an easy tool for that.
zekko
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Pay yourself first. And if you can set up a situation where your savings/investment money is automatically deducted so that you never actually see it, so much the better. Retirement accounts are good because they lower your overall taxable income, and they can grow without tax on the interest. As for the rest, it's a matter of priorities. Few people can have everything they want, so you have to decide what's most important to you.