Johnnie5
Don Juan
whats your user name in there ??
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Lets all gather in one DC++ hub
- Thread starter Materialism
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
cfajason
Don Juan
Bro im gonna connect tomorrow from another computer.
Cheatz
Senior Don Juan
Where are you? Don't forget people on the other side of the world have to wake up to start downloading.
Cheatz
Senior Don Juan
It's on now.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Tweek_1984
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 3, 2004
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How do I find/access the hub?
(I'm new to DC++).
(I'm new to DC++).
cfajason
Don Juan
Are u guys on now?
Heyjose25points
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 23, 2004
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- 385
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- Age
- 40
- Location
- Josetown a.k.a Chocolate City Area
I'll be on there! My username will be the same.
Materialism
Don Juan
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- Aug 7, 2005
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Ok, this is what happened the last time. I was a bit late, came in about an hour later them specified, and stayed on all night. At the end of the night/early morning, since no one had downloaded anything and i had asked for sosuave people in the mainchat (without any answer) i gave up and shut down.
I am willing to gave it a more try, but what was the problem the last time? Tell me and we will fix it this time.
I am willing to gave it a more try, but what was the problem the last time? Tell me and we will fix it this time.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Johnnie5
Don Juan
remember on this side of the globe there is a time difference , so when checked didnt see you in there
Ragin_Asian
Senior Don Juan
What does it mean by this:
<-MadHouse™,Security-> Your client is banned from this hub by [-Owner-]Maverick because: All clients that don't hash files are banned
I'm connected on it 24-7 but just can't seem to get it working properly
<-MadHouse™,Security-> Your client is banned from this hub by [-Owner-]Maverick because: All clients that don't hash files are banned
I'm connected on it 24-7 but just can't seem to get it working properly
Keeper
Master Don Juan
Cool! I'll be there. I might be unconectable to some of you, though. South Africa has a really screwed up telecommunications company and the DNS works like shait!
Nick: Ser_Bunnylot
Sharing: Ebookz/ David D/ Lots of Appz and sometimes movies or a game or two. Depending if I get anything good, and if I decide to keep it on HDD.
Nick: Ser_Bunnylot
Sharing: Ebookz/ David D/ Lots of Appz and sometimes movies or a game or two. Depending if I get anything good, and if I decide to keep it on HDD.
Materialism
Don Juan
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You are probably using "Direct Connect" and not DC++.
DC++ is just all around better so i recommend you to start using that one instead anyway.
Materialism
Don Juan
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Lets set a time instead of people just going in at randon times.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ragin_Asian
Senior Don Juan
Yea I do have DC++ but I always get disconnected n sh*t.
Materialism
Don Juan
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Ok we'll ty again. Lets set the date to this Sunday the 21:st.
All times we speak of will be GMT. Check this site for the current GMT time:
http://ntp.greenwichmeantime.com/time/timemain.php
I suggest we gather at about 21.00 GMT.
That should be about 14-00 to 17.00 depending on where in the stetes you live and for most us Europeans it should be about 21.00-23.00.
How does that sound?
If this time doesn't suit you, speak up while we can change it. This can only become a good gathering if about 10 or more big sharers commit.
Those of you who werent allowed into the old hub must PM me there MSN Messenger e-mail or some other way to contact them so we can find another hub.
All times we speak of will be GMT. Check this site for the current GMT time:
http://ntp.greenwichmeantime.com/time/timemain.php
I suggest we gather at about 21.00 GMT.
That should be about 14-00 to 17.00 depending on where in the stetes you live and for most us Europeans it should be about 21.00-23.00.
How does that sound?
If this time doesn't suit you, speak up while we can change it. This can only become a good gathering if about 10 or more big sharers commit.
Those of you who werent allowed into the old hub must PM me there MSN Messenger e-mail or some other way to contact them so we can find another hub.
Materialism
Don Juan
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Well, first off, if you only have about 1 kb of DJ related material on your computer you are really not of much interest to this discussion since this is about people sharing what they DO HAVE (and appearantly you have nothing) on DC++.
Secondly, How do you know it's so bad if you dont have any of it?
What's your merits anyway?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.