Johnnie5
Don Juan
whats your user name in there ??
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lets all gather in one DC++ hub
- Thread starter Materialism
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
cfajason
Don Juan
Bro im gonna connect tomorrow from another computer.
Cheatz
Senior Don Juan
Where are you? Don't forget people on the other side of the world have to wake up to start downloading.
Cheatz
Senior Don Juan
It's on now.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Tweek_1984
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 3, 2004
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How do I find/access the hub?
(I'm new to DC++).
(I'm new to DC++).
cfajason
Don Juan
Are u guys on now?
Heyjose25points
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 23, 2004
- Messages
- 385
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- 2
- Age
- 40
- Location
- Josetown a.k.a Chocolate City Area
I'll be on there! My username will be the same.
Materialism
Don Juan
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Ok, this is what happened the last time. I was a bit late, came in about an hour later them specified, and stayed on all night. At the end of the night/early morning, since no one had downloaded anything and i had asked for sosuave people in the mainchat (without any answer) i gave up and shut down.
I am willing to gave it a more try, but what was the problem the last time? Tell me and we will fix it this time.
I am willing to gave it a more try, but what was the problem the last time? Tell me and we will fix it this time.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Johnnie5
Don Juan
remember on this side of the globe there is a time difference , so when checked didnt see you in there
Ragin_Asian
Senior Don Juan
What does it mean by this:
<-MadHouse™,Security-> Your client is banned from this hub by [-Owner-]Maverick because: All clients that don't hash files are banned
I'm connected on it 24-7 but just can't seem to get it working properly
<-MadHouse™,Security-> Your client is banned from this hub by [-Owner-]Maverick because: All clients that don't hash files are banned
I'm connected on it 24-7 but just can't seem to get it working properly
Keeper
Master Don Juan
Cool! I'll be there. I might be unconectable to some of you, though. South Africa has a really screwed up telecommunications company and the DNS works like shait!
Nick: Ser_Bunnylot
Sharing: Ebookz/ David D/ Lots of Appz and sometimes movies or a game or two. Depending if I get anything good, and if I decide to keep it on HDD.
Nick: Ser_Bunnylot
Sharing: Ebookz/ David D/ Lots of Appz and sometimes movies or a game or two. Depending if I get anything good, and if I decide to keep it on HDD.
Materialism
Don Juan
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You are probably using "Direct Connect" and not DC++.
DC++ is just all around better so i recommend you to start using that one instead anyway.
Materialism
Don Juan
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Lets set a time instead of people just going in at randon times.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Ragin_Asian
Senior Don Juan
Yea I do have DC++ but I always get disconnected n sh*t.
Materialism
Don Juan
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Ok we'll ty again. Lets set the date to this Sunday the 21:st.
All times we speak of will be GMT. Check this site for the current GMT time:
http://ntp.greenwichmeantime.com/time/timemain.php
I suggest we gather at about 21.00 GMT.
That should be about 14-00 to 17.00 depending on where in the stetes you live and for most us Europeans it should be about 21.00-23.00.
How does that sound?
If this time doesn't suit you, speak up while we can change it. This can only become a good gathering if about 10 or more big sharers commit.
Those of you who werent allowed into the old hub must PM me there MSN Messenger e-mail or some other way to contact them so we can find another hub.
All times we speak of will be GMT. Check this site for the current GMT time:
http://ntp.greenwichmeantime.com/time/timemain.php
I suggest we gather at about 21.00 GMT.
That should be about 14-00 to 17.00 depending on where in the stetes you live and for most us Europeans it should be about 21.00-23.00.
How does that sound?
If this time doesn't suit you, speak up while we can change it. This can only become a good gathering if about 10 or more big sharers commit.
Those of you who werent allowed into the old hub must PM me there MSN Messenger e-mail or some other way to contact them so we can find another hub.
Materialism
Don Juan
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Well, first off, if you only have about 1 kb of DJ related material on your computer you are really not of much interest to this discussion since this is about people sharing what they DO HAVE (and appearantly you have nothing) on DC++.
Secondly, How do you know it's so bad if you dont have any of it?
What's your merits anyway?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.