Johnnie5
Don Juan
whats your user name in there ??
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lets all gather in one DC++ hub
- Thread starter Materialism
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
cfajason
Don Juan
Bro im gonna connect tomorrow from another computer.
Cheatz
Senior Don Juan
Where are you? Don't forget people on the other side of the world have to wake up to start downloading.
Cheatz
Senior Don Juan
It's on now.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tweek_1984
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 3, 2004
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How do I find/access the hub?
(I'm new to DC++).
(I'm new to DC++).
cfajason
Don Juan
Are u guys on now?
Heyjose25points
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 23, 2004
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- 385
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- 40
- Location
- Josetown a.k.a Chocolate City Area
I'll be on there! My username will be the same.
Materialism
Don Juan
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Ok, this is what happened the last time. I was a bit late, came in about an hour later them specified, and stayed on all night. At the end of the night/early morning, since no one had downloaded anything and i had asked for sosuave people in the mainchat (without any answer) i gave up and shut down.
I am willing to gave it a more try, but what was the problem the last time? Tell me and we will fix it this time.
I am willing to gave it a more try, but what was the problem the last time? Tell me and we will fix it this time.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Johnnie5
Don Juan
remember on this side of the globe there is a time difference , so when checked didnt see you in there
Ragin_Asian
Senior Don Juan
What does it mean by this:
<-MadHouse™,Security-> Your client is banned from this hub by [-Owner-]Maverick because: All clients that don't hash files are banned
I'm connected on it 24-7 but just can't seem to get it working properly
<-MadHouse™,Security-> Your client is banned from this hub by [-Owner-]Maverick because: All clients that don't hash files are banned
I'm connected on it 24-7 but just can't seem to get it working properly
Keeper
Master Don Juan
Cool! I'll be there. I might be unconectable to some of you, though. South Africa has a really screwed up telecommunications company and the DNS works like shait!
Nick: Ser_Bunnylot
Sharing: Ebookz/ David D/ Lots of Appz and sometimes movies or a game or two. Depending if I get anything good, and if I decide to keep it on HDD.
Nick: Ser_Bunnylot
Sharing: Ebookz/ David D/ Lots of Appz and sometimes movies or a game or two. Depending if I get anything good, and if I decide to keep it on HDD.
Materialism
Don Juan
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You are probably using "Direct Connect" and not DC++.
DC++ is just all around better so i recommend you to start using that one instead anyway.
Materialism
Don Juan
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Lets set a time instead of people just going in at randon times.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ragin_Asian
Senior Don Juan
Yea I do have DC++ but I always get disconnected n sh*t.
Materialism
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Ok we'll ty again. Lets set the date to this Sunday the 21:st.
All times we speak of will be GMT. Check this site for the current GMT time:
http://ntp.greenwichmeantime.com/time/timemain.php
I suggest we gather at about 21.00 GMT.
That should be about 14-00 to 17.00 depending on where in the stetes you live and for most us Europeans it should be about 21.00-23.00.
How does that sound?
If this time doesn't suit you, speak up while we can change it. This can only become a good gathering if about 10 or more big sharers commit.
Those of you who werent allowed into the old hub must PM me there MSN Messenger e-mail or some other way to contact them so we can find another hub.
All times we speak of will be GMT. Check this site for the current GMT time:
http://ntp.greenwichmeantime.com/time/timemain.php
I suggest we gather at about 21.00 GMT.
That should be about 14-00 to 17.00 depending on where in the stetes you live and for most us Europeans it should be about 21.00-23.00.
How does that sound?
If this time doesn't suit you, speak up while we can change it. This can only become a good gathering if about 10 or more big sharers commit.
Those of you who werent allowed into the old hub must PM me there MSN Messenger e-mail or some other way to contact them so we can find another hub.
Materialism
Don Juan
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Well, first off, if you only have about 1 kb of DJ related material on your computer you are really not of much interest to this discussion since this is about people sharing what they DO HAVE (and appearantly you have nothing) on DC++.
Secondly, How do you know it's so bad if you dont have any of it?
What's your merits anyway?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.