"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Able to get together?

Were y'all able to get together for the download? I have some useful stuff that I downloaded in regards to dating, female psychology, etc... Let me know if y'all are planning another session.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ok, this is what happened the last time. I was a bit late, came in about an hour later them specified, and stayed on all night. At the end of the night/early morning, since no one had downloaded anything and i had asked for sosuave people in the mainchat (without any answer) i gave up and shut down.

I am willing to gave it a more try, but what was the problem the last time? Tell me and we will fix it this time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What does it mean by this:

<-MadHouse™,Security-> Your client is banned from this hub by [-Owner-]Maverick because: All clients that don't hash files are banned

I'm connected on it 24-7 but just can't seem to get it working properly
 
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Keeper

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Cool! I'll be there. I might be unconectable to some of you, though. South Africa has a really screwed up telecommunications company and the DNS works like shait!

Nick: Ser_Bunnylot

Sharing: Ebookz/ David D/ Lots of Appz and sometimes movies or a game or two. Depending if I get anything good, and if I decide to keep it on HDD.
 
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Materialism

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Originally posted by Ragin_Asian
What does it mean by this:

<-MadHouse™,Security-> Your client is banned from this hub by [-Owner-]Maverick because: All clients that don't hash files are banned

I'm connected on it 24-7 but just can't seem to get it working properly
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You are probably using "Direct Connect" and not DC++.

DC++ is just all around better so i recommend you to start using that one instead anyway.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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rapsta

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Originally posted by quest
guys, u know how much material i have on my computer?

well, i don't.

i assume that its like 1kb.

i've got "club alpha" (see GGTW) saved in my favourites.
and i've got www.sosuave.com in the drop down bar in the address thing for IE.

and guess what? i meet a kiss close new girls every weekend.

don't worry about all this gimmicky crap.

it WON'T help you.

it just complicates things.

just go and get your ass into the field.

i'd say "learn from your mistakes"

but seriously, you won't even make many mistakes.

girls are needy. you can put them through hell and they'll stick around.
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word :)
where can i find club alpha though?
 
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Ok we'll ty again. Lets set the date to this Sunday the 21:st.

All times we speak of will be GMT. Check this site for the current GMT time:
http://ntp.greenwichmeantime.com/time/timemain.php

I suggest we gather at about 21.00 GMT.

That should be about 14-00 to 17.00 depending on where in the stetes you live and for most us Europeans it should be about 21.00-23.00.

How does that sound?

If this time doesn't suit you, speak up while we can change it. This can only become a good gathering if about 10 or more big sharers commit.

Those of you who werent allowed into the old hub must PM me there MSN Messenger e-mail or some other way to contact them so we can find another hub.
 
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Originally posted by quest
guys, u know how much material i have on my computer?

well, i don't.

i assume that its like 1kb.
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Well, first off, if you only have about 1 kb of DJ related material on your computer you are really not of much interest to this discussion since this is about people sharing what they DO HAVE (and appearantly you have nothing) on DC++.

Secondly, How do you know it's so bad if you dont have any of it?

What's your merits anyway?
 
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1. Does DC++ use channels, or just one main room for all users on the server?

2. Materialism, what's your nick on DC++?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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