Johnnie5
Don Juan
can we make the time 1900GMT as by 2100 i'm off to work on monday morning here in aus so will miss the start
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
1. Dunno what you mean. I'm not really into these kind of things.Originally posted by ikkenai
1. Does DC++ use channels, or just one main room for all users on the server?
2. Materialism, what's your nick on DC++?
Sure we can change it to 19.00 GMT.Originally posted by Johnnie5
can we make the time 1900GMT as by 2100 i'm off to work on monday morning here in aus so will miss the start
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hello mate, don't suppose I could trade you DYD (videos) for the advanced series?Originally posted by Recluce
the programs that i have by him:
bars and nightclubs
****y comedy
advanced series (video and audio)
interviews:
Alex
Brent
Craig
Dr. Paul
David Shade
Greg
Laura Moore
Marie
Pattry Contenta
Stephane
Stephen
Swinggcat
26
Tyler
Will
Mastery Series(audio and video)
Sexual Communication (first series)
Ebook - Double your dating
Ebook - Lover and provider
Ebook - How to change yourself
Ebook - Defeating Shyness
Ebook - Bridges
Ebook - Attraction is not a choice
Ebook - Sex Secrets
Ebook - Stephane Special Report
Video - Body Langauage