"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Able to get together?

Were y'all able to get together for the download? I have some useful stuff that I downloaded in regards to dating, female psychology, etc... Let me know if y'all are planning another session.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok, this is what happened the last time. I was a bit late, came in about an hour later them specified, and stayed on all night. At the end of the night/early morning, since no one had downloaded anything and i had asked for sosuave people in the mainchat (without any answer) i gave up and shut down.

I am willing to gave it a more try, but what was the problem the last time? Tell me and we will fix it this time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ragin_Asian

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What does it mean by this:

<-MadHouse™,Security-> Your client is banned from this hub by [-Owner-]Maverick because: All clients that don't hash files are banned

I'm connected on it 24-7 but just can't seem to get it working properly
 

Keeper

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Cool! I'll be there. I might be unconectable to some of you, though. South Africa has a really screwed up telecommunications company and the DNS works like shait!

Nick: Ser_Bunnylot

Sharing: Ebookz/ David D/ Lots of Appz and sometimes movies or a game or two. Depending if I get anything good, and if I decide to keep it on HDD.
 

Materialism

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Originally posted by Ragin_Asian
What does it mean by this:

<-MadHouse™,Security-> Your client is banned from this hub by [-Owner-]Maverick because: All clients that don't hash files are banned

I'm connected on it 24-7 but just can't seem to get it working properly
You are probably using "Direct Connect" and not DC++.

DC++ is just all around better so i recommend you to start using that one instead anyway.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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rapsta

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Originally posted by quest
guys, u know how much material i have on my computer?

well, i don't.

i assume that its like 1kb.

i've got "club alpha" (see GGTW) saved in my favourites.
and i've got www.sosuave.com in the drop down bar in the address thing for IE.

and guess what? i meet a kiss close new girls every weekend.

don't worry about all this gimmicky crap.

it WON'T help you.

it just complicates things.

just go and get your ass into the field.

i'd say "learn from your mistakes"

but seriously, you won't even make many mistakes.

girls are needy. you can put them through hell and they'll stick around.

word :)
where can i find club alpha though?
 

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Ok we'll ty again. Lets set the date to this Sunday the 21:st.

All times we speak of will be GMT. Check this site for the current GMT time:
http://ntp.greenwichmeantime.com/time/timemain.php

I suggest we gather at about 21.00 GMT.

That should be about 14-00 to 17.00 depending on where in the stetes you live and for most us Europeans it should be about 21.00-23.00.

How does that sound?

If this time doesn't suit you, speak up while we can change it. This can only become a good gathering if about 10 or more big sharers commit.

Those of you who werent allowed into the old hub must PM me there MSN Messenger e-mail or some other way to contact them so we can find another hub.
 

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Originally posted by quest
guys, u know how much material i have on my computer?

well, i don't.

i assume that its like 1kb.
Well, first off, if you only have about 1 kb of DJ related material on your computer you are really not of much interest to this discussion since this is about people sharing what they DO HAVE (and appearantly you have nothing) on DC++.

Secondly, How do you know it's so bad if you dont have any of it?

What's your merits anyway?
 

ikkenai

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1. Does DC++ use channels, or just one main room for all users on the server?

2. Materialism, what's your nick on DC++?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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