What is too much and what is too soon?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
last few plates are actually NUTS its getting tedious
- Thread starter derby1
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
depends on the woman, if you have to ask then anything is too much and too soon
once you know the woman in question, you'll know if you can trust her with your life or if you better not get too attached to the puppy
she won't change in one night or anything, so once you know her and you keep an eye on her, you'll see it coming and be able to respond accordingly (obviously if you're in the business of making permanent unretractable investments like marriage or owning property together or a business or kids then you'll have to take a humongous risk no matter what, but if it's just you guys in the same apartment you can always find another incase things are going south)
RichardTheFrog
Banned
I don't understand how guys get power like this over girls. All I can do is pay them.
Other than that, they wouldn't give a fvck what I do, and wouldn't even notice if I died.
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