"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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last few plates are actually NUTS its getting tedious

Urbanyst

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Respectfully disagree. The passage quoted is a very reactive stand to take. At least half of the onus is on men to be competent enough to gauge value, and not investing too much too soon.
What is too much and what is too soon?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What is too much and what is too soon?
depends on the woman, if you have to ask then anything is too much and too soon

once you know the woman in question, you'll know if you can trust her with your life or if you better not get too attached to the puppy

she won't change in one night or anything, so once you know her and you keep an eye on her, you'll see it coming and be able to respond accordingly (obviously if you're in the business of making permanent unretractable investments like marriage or owning property together or a business or kids then you'll have to take a humongous risk no matter what, but if it's just you guys in the same apartment you can always find another incase things are going south)
 
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ive had 2 stroppy and needy ones totally love bomb me come to my place i havent even had to move theyve returned numerous times only to go ghost one even asked me if id shagged her cousin i mean what a paranoid question out of nowhere wtf!!!
I don't understand how guys get power like this over girls. All I can do is pay them.

Other than that, they wouldn't give a fvck what I do, and wouldn't even notice if I died.
 
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