"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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last few plates are actually NUTS its getting tedious

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Respectfully disagree. The passage quoted is a very reactive stand to take. At least half of the onus is on men to be competent enough to gauge value, and not investing too much too soon.
What is too much and what is too soon?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What is too much and what is too soon?
depends on the woman, if you have to ask then anything is too much and too soon

once you know the woman in question, you'll know if you can trust her with your life or if you better not get too attached to the puppy

she won't change in one night or anything, so once you know her and you keep an eye on her, you'll see it coming and be able to respond accordingly (obviously if you're in the business of making permanent unretractable investments like marriage or owning property together or a business or kids then you'll have to take a humongous risk no matter what, but if it's just you guys in the same apartment you can always find another incase things are going south)
 
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ive had 2 stroppy and needy ones totally love bomb me come to my place i havent even had to move theyve returned numerous times only to go ghost one even asked me if id shagged her cousin i mean what a paranoid question out of nowhere wtf!!!
I don't understand how guys get power like this over girls. All I can do is pay them.

Other than that, they wouldn't give a fvck what I do, and wouldn't even notice if I died.
 
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