RickTheToad
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Lady loses 260+ lbs. Think she'll stay with her hubby?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Lady loses 260+ lbs. Think she'll stay with her hubby?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RickTheToad
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A little nip and tuck here and there and that excess skin will be gone. I bet you hubby will pay for it. The dude is still 400+ lbs btw. Unacceptable.
logicallefty
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I railed a woman who looked ALMOST that bad back in 2005. In cloths she was skinny and absolutely gorgeous. She told me she had had gastric bypass surgey and lost a crap ton of weight. When she got the cloths off she barely passed the b0ner test enough for me to get it up and I for sure didn't cvm. Saw her at a wedding 2 x or so years later. She was still skinny and I was drunk an horney so I figured I would give her a second try. Went to her place after the wedding. NOPE. Wasn't happening. I admire the weight loss but that skin.. Ohhhhh. that skin....
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DelayedGratification
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A swinger/fetish group I was involved with last spring had a woman like that. Was apparently a poster-child for the success of a Keto diet, everyone there was proud and supportive of her. But she was also an inadvertent poster-child for "don't get that fat in the first place". The sagging skin... ick.
Made all the worse by the fact that she is a sub who is into being flogged. Not a pretty sight to behold. One of the many lessons learned from my foray into that group was that I'm not into pain-kink, and don't really get much out of watching others engage in it. Especially not a sub-prime physical specimen such as herself.
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Depends how much she loves him
RickTheToad
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You're into some sick s hit dude....
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I keep hearing stories of women loosing too much then leave their husband/boyfriend , so if she do skin tighting procedures then most likely she will leave him, as for now she still need him to pay for these procedures just like he paid for her while she was loosing weight , to be fair this is humane nature , they want to mate with the best options they have .
She looked more nice when she was fat, now she have a biitch face , most likely she is getting good amount of attention from men
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DelayedGratification
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Yeah, I could see where you'd get that impression. I'm not really "into" it the way you're implying. That phase of my self-exploration was relatively brief, and I learned what I needed to learn. Namely, I'm not really into it, but some people truly are, and who am I to judge what gets them off.
Along the way I've accumulated some interesting anecdotes, which I consider a net positive.
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It depends if she changed her attitude as well.
Changing weight is one thing, but changing attitude is another.
Fat women carry a lot of baggage and are more mentally rotten than athletic women.
If she's taking shortcuts about cutting weight, then I'm assuming she'll be taking shortcuts in her dating life.
Most guys wont tolerate her bullsh!t behavior.
Changing weight is one thing, but changing attitude is another.
Fat women carry a lot of baggage and are more mentally rotten than athletic women.
If she's taking shortcuts about cutting weight, then I'm assuming she'll be taking shortcuts in her dating life.
Most guys wont tolerate her bullsh!t behavior.