RickTheToad
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Lady loses 260+ lbs. Think she'll stay with her hubby?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Lady loses 260+ lbs. Think she'll stay with her hubby?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
RickTheToad
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A little nip and tuck here and there and that excess skin will be gone. I bet you hubby will pay for it. The dude is still 400+ lbs btw. Unacceptable.
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I railed a woman who looked ALMOST that bad back in 2005. In cloths she was skinny and absolutely gorgeous. She told me she had had gastric bypass surgey and lost a crap ton of weight. When she got the cloths off she barely passed the b0ner test enough for me to get it up and I for sure didn't cvm. Saw her at a wedding 2 x or so years later. She was still skinny and I was drunk an horney so I figured I would give her a second try. Went to her place after the wedding. NOPE. Wasn't happening. I admire the weight loss but that skin.. Ohhhhh. that skin....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DelayedGratification
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A swinger/fetish group I was involved with last spring had a woman like that. Was apparently a poster-child for the success of a Keto diet, everyone there was proud and supportive of her. But she was also an inadvertent poster-child for "don't get that fat in the first place". The sagging skin... ick.
Made all the worse by the fact that she is a sub who is into being flogged. Not a pretty sight to behold. One of the many lessons learned from my foray into that group was that I'm not into pain-kink, and don't really get much out of watching others engage in it. Especially not a sub-prime physical specimen such as herself.
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Depends how much she loves him
RickTheToad
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You're into some sick s hit dude....
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I keep hearing stories of women loosing too much then leave their husband/boyfriend , so if she do skin tighting procedures then most likely she will leave him, as for now she still need him to pay for these procedures just like he paid for her while she was loosing weight , to be fair this is humane nature , they want to mate with the best options they have .
She looked more nice when she was fat, now she have a biitch face , most likely she is getting good amount of attention from men
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Yeah, I could see where you'd get that impression. I'm not really "into" it the way you're implying. That phase of my self-exploration was relatively brief, and I learned what I needed to learn. Namely, I'm not really into it, but some people truly are, and who am I to judge what gets them off.
Along the way I've accumulated some interesting anecdotes, which I consider a net positive.
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It depends if she changed her attitude as well.
Changing weight is one thing, but changing attitude is another.
Fat women carry a lot of baggage and are more mentally rotten than athletic women.
If she's taking shortcuts about cutting weight, then I'm assuming she'll be taking shortcuts in her dating life.
Most guys wont tolerate her bullsh!t behavior.
Changing weight is one thing, but changing attitude is another.
Fat women carry a lot of baggage and are more mentally rotten than athletic women.
If she's taking shortcuts about cutting weight, then I'm assuming she'll be taking shortcuts in her dating life.
Most guys wont tolerate her bullsh!t behavior.