"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kiss this girl right away or do it on the second date? How soon to make a move?

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I’ll keep this thread short. So I met this girl and she’s giving me strong signs of interest. She actually asked me for my number instead of the other way around, and she’s responding really well to my texts. We’re both musicians, so she’s coming out to see my show tomorrow.

I’ll be flirting with her once she gets there, of course. But should I just go ahead and kiss her there? I’ve only known her 3 days. Last time I tried something like this, it turned out really badly. I’m thinking I’m just gonna go out and have a good time with her at the bar while I’m working. After that, I’ll sext her so she knows I’m interested. Then she can come over to “write music” and I’ll seal the deal.

But what do you all think? Any insights?

P.S. Totally getting a Shrimp Scampi and some Vodka and Pineapple juice tomorrow. I deserve it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No need to plan it out just go with the flow.
 
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nicksaiz65 said:
Trust my gut just like Pook said to, right?
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Yeah, kissing hwr should be natural. Act like its no big deal and that you always do it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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