Kiss this girl right away or do it on the second date? How soon to make a move?

[nicksaiz65]

I’ll keep this thread short. So I met this girl and she’s giving me strong signs of interest. She actually asked me for my number instead of the other way around, and she’s responding really well to my texts. We’re both musicians, so she’s coming out to see my show tomorrow.

I’ll be flirting with her once she gets there, of course. But should I just go ahead and kiss her there? I’ve only known her 3 days. Last time I tried something like this, it turned out really badly. I’m thinking I’m just gonna go out and have a good time with her at the bar while I’m working. After that, I’ll sext her so she knows I’m interested. Then she can come over to “write music” and I’ll seal the deal.

But what do you all think? Any insights?

P.S. Totally getting a Shrimp Scampi and some Vodka and Pineapple juice tomorrow. I deserve it.

 

[marmel75]

No need to plan it out just go with the flow.

 

[nicksaiz65]

No need to plan it out just go with the flow.

Trust my gut just like Pook said to, right?

 

[marmel75]

Trust my gut just like Pook said to, right?

Yeah, kissing hwr should be natural. Act like its no big deal and that you always do it.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Sounds good. Let us know if she put out.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Sounds good. Let us know if she put out.

I’ll do an update in my journal and on here about the date