"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kiss this girl right away or do it on the second date? How soon to make a move?

nicksaiz65

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I’ll keep this thread short. So I met this girl and she’s giving me strong signs of interest. She actually asked me for my number instead of the other way around, and she’s responding really well to my texts. We’re both musicians, so she’s coming out to see my show tomorrow.

I’ll be flirting with her once she gets there, of course. But should I just go ahead and kiss her there? I’ve only known her 3 days. Last time I tried something like this, it turned out really badly. I’m thinking I’m just gonna go out and have a good time with her at the bar while I’m working. After that, I’ll sext her so she knows I’m interested. Then she can come over to “write music” and I’ll seal the deal.

But what do you all think? Any insights?

P.S. Totally getting a Shrimp Scampi and some Vodka and Pineapple juice tomorrow. I deserve it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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marmel75

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No need to plan it out just go with the flow.
 

marmel75

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Trust my gut just like Pook said to, right?
Yeah, kissing hwr should be natural. Act like its no big deal and that you always do it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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