“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just asked her out and she said "maybe in February, this semester is busy"

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Don’t do anything.
If someone is honestly too busy until...February.. they are not in to you.
Interested women make things easy for you. Anything aside from high interest in the beginning is a waste. Don’t waste your time.
Absolutely!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Not necessarily a bad things as we all know seduction is a game.

Advice?

Thanks.

Ideas:

1) Reply with: Sure, if I still remember you in February/Ha ha, I will probably forget by then.
2) Ask again in a month'ish

Bad ideas:
1) Reply with: okay, I will ask you again in February
2) Wait until Feb and then ask her out again then
This is what happens when a woman isn't interested. Any little thing becomes a reason she can't meet.

If she was interested, no obstacle would be too big to overcome to meet.
 

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Anything you say or any attention you give at this point is just wasting your own time. She's not only not interested, she also has zero respect for you. You're disrespecting yourself by dealing with these kinds of people.
The problem is there’s TONS of people out there just like this woman.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Imagine if Dicaprio texted her. Would she say she's busy? Would Cobra Tate wait? Comply or bye.
Exactly and to the point.
She would CHASE him for a date.

Women always have exceptions for those they consider the mega alphas/chads and for the ones they consider beta AFC's they set rules.
 

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Yes, but that's even more reason not to waste your time on them. They'll take up all your time and energy if you let them.
It gets tiresome bumping into those types so frequently though. Banish them all to an island for all I care. We’d be better off.
 

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Not necessarily a bad things as we all know seduction is a game.

Advice?

Thanks.

Ideas:

1) Reply with: Sure, if I still remember you in February/Ha ha, I will probably forget by then.
2) Ask again in a month'ish

Bad ideas:
1) Reply with: okay, I will ask you again in February
2) Wait until Feb and then ask her out again then
Treat it as a no. Anytime girls mutter "maybe" that is their way of giving you false hope to keep you orbiting, but not saying yes, because they don't have the guts to say no.

Say "ok. Talk to you in Feburary." Then go date other women and forget all about her.
 

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and if you do decide to reach out, February 15th is the earliest day. Nothing leading up to it.
 

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I wouldn't do any of those 4.

Here's what I say when as soon as they suggest meeting more than 72 hours in advance:

"You seem to have a lot on your plate right now so I'm gonna cancel. No worries or hard feelings."
When you say that, well I'd remove the No Worries or Hard Feelings sentence. You're leaving room for her to flake on you again.

But how well does that line work? It does and sound like it brings you from beta to useless. You're not getting laid, but Tyrone is!
 

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Tell her this...Is it true what I heard about you?

She will respond to this guaranteed. Then you tell her...I will tell you in February 2022
 

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Not necessarily a bad things as we all know seduction is a game.

Advice?

Thanks.

Ideas:

1) Reply with: Sure, if I still remember you in February/Ha ha, I will probably forget by then.
2) Ask again in a month'ish

Bad ideas:
1) Reply with: okay, I will ask you again in February
2) Wait until Feb and then ask her out again then
I wouldn't reply at all. I would wait 4 months after February to contact her.
 

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She's testing you to see if you will put up with being a Beta orbiter.

My Rx: You need to spin more plates.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yeah this is probably BS. She's probably just not that into you and trying to evaluate some better options (in her mind) that she has right now. If they fizzle out, she has you on the back burner. Women that are interested will do anything to F you. I've got a Russian stripped flying to NY from FL just to see me for a couple of days (I'm not paying for anything btw).
 

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Exactly and to the point.
She would CHASE him for a date.

Women always have exceptions for those they consider the mega alphas/chads and for the ones they consider beta AFC's they set rules.
Fellas need to be more savage with time. Any sign of disinterested or ambiguity, I walk. #next hotter girls are turning 18 everyday. Fertility is declining contrary to the girl power narrative.

Lose number and don't even acknowledge her existence in future outings. Said ***** is dead to you.

If she was run over by a monster truck, you are too busy hitting on skanks and going balls deep to give a **** nor attend funeral.
 

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Yeah this is probably BS. She's probably just not that into you and trying to evaluate some better options (in her mind) that she has right now. If they fizzle out, she has you on the back burner. Women that are interested will do anything to F you. I've got a Russian stripped flying to NY from FL just to see me for a couple of days (I'm not paying for anything btw).
Exactly. It could be a zombies apocalypse or global pandemic. Women are still clawing the eyes out of everyone to get to the alpha male.
 

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This is what happens when a woman isn't interested. Any little thing becomes a reason she can't meet.

If she was interested, no obstacle would be too big to overcome to meet.
+1

Which again, why every past OG in the game emphasized on VOLUME & & & the most often piece Said, "IT'S A NUMBERS GAME." as a man, you approach. You make space. You drop invitation. She comes or next. One thing that I don't play a game of is text game phaggotry. I want my d sucked. Send location. Movie night. Tell her to dress sexy. Any decline in compliance means next. Even compliance means #nextset.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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