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Just asked her out and she said "maybe in February, this semester is busy"

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Don’t do anything.
If someone is honestly too busy until...February.. they are not in to you.
Interested women make things easy for you. Anything aside from high interest in the beginning is a waste. Don’t waste your time.
Absolutely!
 

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Not necessarily a bad things as we all know seduction is a game.

Advice?

Thanks.

Ideas:

1) Reply with: Sure, if I still remember you in February/Ha ha, I will probably forget by then.
2) Ask again in a month'ish

Bad ideas:
1) Reply with: okay, I will ask you again in February
2) Wait until Feb and then ask her out again then
This is what happens when a woman isn't interested. Any little thing becomes a reason she can't meet.

If she was interested, no obstacle would be too big to overcome to meet.
 

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Anything you say or any attention you give at this point is just wasting your own time. She's not only not interested, she also has zero respect for you. You're disrespecting yourself by dealing with these kinds of people.
The problem is there’s TONS of people out there just like this woman.
 

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Imagine if Dicaprio texted her. Would she say she's busy? Would Cobra Tate wait? Comply or bye.
Exactly and to the point.
She would CHASE him for a date.

Women always have exceptions for those they consider the mega alphas/chads and for the ones they consider beta AFC's they set rules.
 

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Yes, but that's even more reason not to waste your time on them. They'll take up all your time and energy if you let them.
It gets tiresome bumping into those types so frequently though. Banish them all to an island for all I care. We’d be better off.
 

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Ideas:

1) Reply with: Sure, if I still remember you in February/Ha ha, I will probably forget by then.
2) Ask again in a month'ish

Bad ideas:
1) Reply with: okay, I will ask you again in February
2) Wait until Feb and then ask her out again then
I wouldn't do any of those 4.

Here's what I say when as soon as they suggest meeting more than 72 hours in advance:

"You seem to have a lot on your plate right now so I'm gonna cancel. No worries or hard feelings."
 

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Not necessarily a bad things as we all know seduction is a game.

Advice?

Thanks.

Ideas:

1) Reply with: Sure, if I still remember you in February/Ha ha, I will probably forget by then.
2) Ask again in a month'ish

Bad ideas:
1) Reply with: okay, I will ask you again in February
2) Wait until Feb and then ask her out again then
Treat it as a no. Anytime girls mutter "maybe" that is their way of giving you false hope to keep you orbiting, but not saying yes, because they don't have the guts to say no.

Say "ok. Talk to you in Feburary." Then go date other women and forget all about her.
 

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and if you do decide to reach out, February 15th is the earliest day. Nothing leading up to it.
 

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I wouldn't do any of those 4.

Here's what I say when as soon as they suggest meeting more than 72 hours in advance:

"You seem to have a lot on your plate right now so I'm gonna cancel. No worries or hard feelings."
When you say that, well I'd remove the No Worries or Hard Feelings sentence. You're leaving room for her to flake on you again.

But how well does that line work? It does and sound like it brings you from beta to useless. You're not getting laid, but Tyrone is!
 

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Tell her this...Is it true what I heard about you?

She will respond to this guaranteed. Then you tell her...I will tell you in February 2022
 

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Not necessarily a bad things as we all know seduction is a game.

Advice?

Thanks.

Ideas:

1) Reply with: Sure, if I still remember you in February/Ha ha, I will probably forget by then.
2) Ask again in a month'ish

Bad ideas:
1) Reply with: okay, I will ask you again in February
2) Wait until Feb and then ask her out again then
I wouldn't reply at all. I would wait 4 months after February to contact her.
 

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She's testing you to see if you will put up with being a Beta orbiter.

My Rx: You need to spin more plates.
 

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Yeah this is probably BS. She's probably just not that into you and trying to evaluate some better options (in her mind) that she has right now. If they fizzle out, she has you on the back burner. Women that are interested will do anything to F you. I've got a Russian stripped flying to NY from FL just to see me for a couple of days (I'm not paying for anything btw).
 

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You're not high on her priority list so it's time to move
 
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