ive just made the same mistake that bought me to this site years ago.

[Buck Rogers]

Ive gone and gotten myself in the friends zone, not officially, but i know the signs and i know how i felt last time, and this is worse.

What makes it worse is that my best pal is ****ing the chick that im in the zone with, and im the only person that knows this.

What sucks more is i cant emotionally detach myself from this, and i might have to tell my friend (also my wingman) about how i feel and all hell could break loose.

Still once an AFC always an AFC i guess.

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

What sucks more is i cant emotionally detach myself from this,

Yes you can..

 

[Docs]

What makes it worse is that my best pal is ****ing the chick that im in the zone with

How the hell did that happen?

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

How the hell did that happen?

DJA and DJB want a girl..dja gives it a shot and goes into fz,djb lets him try because they're buddies,djb sees dja in fz and makes his move..djb fvcks the girl

 

[Docs]

Oh comeon, I want the truth now. I wanted to hear how DJGI got in on this!

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

Dude i don't know exactly what you're saying but i don't know this guy.I'm just making an (well)educated guess here..(because i did this before,also i don't live in UK)

 

[Docs]

Damn, I thought you were the same as the other guy. I'll never hear how this happened

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

Heh now that i read over the thread again it kinda makes sense but wte you'll have to wait and hear the truth from the OP

 

[Obsidian]

bah, get over her, Buck. There are plenty of other women.

The only real trouble is when you can't succeed with *any* women...that's the problem I've been having lately.

 

[Buck Rogers]

DJA and DJB want a girl..dja gives it a shot and goes into fz,djb lets him try because they're buddies,djb sees dja in fz and makes his move..djb fvcks the girl

Thats not quite how it happend, DJA has only recently realised feelings, DJb has somehow came from nowhere.perhaps its because im jealous i dont know.

Im not entirely sure if am in the friendzone, all i know is i definatley havve oneitis.

and i have no proof my pal's being honest. what a mess.

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

He was your pal before this...i never said dja and djb agreed to that scenario.I came from nowhere aswell when i pulled this stunt unknowingly(sp?) to my bud..i explained later and he was pretty much ok though.Hey he doesn't own her..getting sidetracked here.
Just next man,you're getting in a ****load of emotional stress if you pursue.

 

[Docs]

Smoke stold countless girls from me. At least I have bidding power in saying I hooked him up for once.

 

[Buck Rogers]

Well, yea my thats what happend, ive said im ok with it, hes even asked me if i want him to stop. and i said exactly that "i dont own her man" and its my prob ill deal with it.

But the truth is im cracking up, i dont know how we got from having girls as social proof to this.

its crazy.

 

[Bonhomme]

What makes it worse is that my best pal is ****ing the chick that im in the zone with, and im the only person that knows this.

If nobody else knows but you, you have to just keep it to yourself and spin a lot more plates. Telling anybody will only make matters way, way worse. Focus on possibilities, rather than lost causes. If it bugs you too much, just do your best to minimizem contact with them, especially her, at least until you're cured.

 

[typical]

If nobody else knows but you, you have to just keep it to yourself and spin a lot more plates. Telling anybody will only make matters way, way worse. Focus on possibilities, rather than lost causes. If it bugs you too much, just do your best to minimizem contact with them, especially her, at least until you're cured.

Golden tip, follow to the line.