Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Wacky-1

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Honestly, I've been eating like a madman, and I still can't get past 61kg...I'm about 177 (height). Is it a metabolism problem or something, cos i simply can't gain enough weight!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NEWBIE101

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Well...what foods have you been eating?

How many calories per day have you been consuming? How much protein?

All these questions must be answered in order for us to help you.
 

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Yeah what have you been eating? How does your typical day look like diet wise.
 

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It's not just what you're eating, are you hitting the gym HARD? Stimulate that muscle growth, and your body will rack up size.
 

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Actually. gaining in weight has everything to do what you eat. If he eat like a horse and still doesn't gain anything, not even fat then it is strange.

Maybe you have a biniki worm in your stomage. (not a joke, I just can't spell it in english)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Actually. gaining in weight has everything to do what you eat.
I disagree.

Gaining weight is influenced mainly by what you eat, however, for a hardgainer, the muscle breakdown and hormonal release from intense workouts can change how the body processes the food. Instead of going straight through their body, it can be put to better uses. Thus, the workout regimen and intensity is an important factor in the gaining of weight.
 

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Well, it's the regular three meals a day, but every now and then I pull out a snack (chips whatever) to make sure I get some fat.
But I assume the message here is : Quit eating like a madman for now, work out, and then try eating again?

Correct me if I'm wrong...
 

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Originally posted by Wacky-1
Well, it's the regular three meals a day, but every now and then I pull out a snack (chips whatever) to make sure I get some fat.
But I assume the message here is : Quit eating like a madman for now, work out, and then try eating again?

Correct me if I'm wrong...
I say, if you have the testicular fortitude, read up at Diesel's bulking guide and bodybuilding.com. Develop a real bulking diet and keep hitting the weights hard. If you do these things correctly, it'll be impossible not to gain.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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