"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It's not Working...
- Thread starter Wacky-1
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
NEWBIE101
Senior Don Juan
How many calories per day have you been consuming? How much protein?
All these questions must be answered in order for us to help you.
Maybe you have a biniki worm in your stomage. (not a joke, I just can't spell it in english)
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I disagree.Actually. gaining in weight has everything to do what you eat.
Gaining weight is influenced mainly by what you eat, however, for a hardgainer, the muscle breakdown and hormonal release from intense workouts can change how the body processes the food. Instead of going straight through their body, it can be put to better uses. Thus, the workout regimen and intensity is an important factor in the gaining of weight.
But I assume the message here is : Quit eating like a madman for now, work out, and then try eating again?
Correct me if I'm wrong...
Phantasmal
Senior Don Juan
I say, if you have the testicular fortitude, read up at Diesel's bulking guide and bodybuilding.com. Develop a real bulking diet and keep hitting the weights hard. If you do these things correctly, it'll be impossible not to gain.Originally posted by Wacky-1
Well, it's the regular three meals a day, but every now and then I pull out a snack (chips whatever) to make sure I get some fat.
But I assume the message here is : Quit eating like a madman for now, work out, and then try eating again?
Correct me if I'm wrong...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.