"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It's not Working...
- Thread starter Wacky-1
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
NEWBIE101
Senior Don Juan
How many calories per day have you been consuming? How much protein?
All these questions must be answered in order for us to help you.
Maybe you have a biniki worm in your stomage. (not a joke, I just can't spell it in english)
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I disagree.Actually. gaining in weight has everything to do what you eat.
Gaining weight is influenced mainly by what you eat, however, for a hardgainer, the muscle breakdown and hormonal release from intense workouts can change how the body processes the food. Instead of going straight through their body, it can be put to better uses. Thus, the workout regimen and intensity is an important factor in the gaining of weight.
But I assume the message here is : Quit eating like a madman for now, work out, and then try eating again?
Correct me if I'm wrong...
Phantasmal
Senior Don Juan
I say, if you have the testicular fortitude, read up at Diesel's bulking guide and bodybuilding.com. Develop a real bulking diet and keep hitting the weights hard. If you do these things correctly, it'll be impossible not to gain.Originally posted by Wacky-1
Well, it's the regular three meals a day, but every now and then I pull out a snack (chips whatever) to make sure I get some fat.
But I assume the message here is : Quit eating like a madman for now, work out, and then try eating again?
Correct me if I'm wrong...
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.