It's 2021, and the height-shaming is reaching catatrosphic levels

[rjc149]

I’ve heard several women say flat out “he was perfect but I wish he was taller! I went out with him a few times hoping to be able to move past that but I just couldn’t!”. Just because you make it past one date doesn’t mean anything these days. Those other things might have played a part but she still raised the issue, I didn’t.

For a guy who is 5’10? Maybe an actual short guy, under 5’7. I’m not saying 5’10 is a positive attribute but for 90% of women (that you approach in real life) it’s not a deal-breaker, unless they are very shallow or they’re somewhat tall themselves.

I’m 5’10. My height has never been brought up to me. It’s never been an issue for me in dating. At least, not an issue I’m conscious of while I’m approaching women. Maybe that’s why I’ve still been able to pull pretty hot girls in situations where you would “come up short.”

 

[rjc149]

I’ve heard several women say flat out “he was perfect but I wish he was taller! I went out with him a few times hoping to be able to move past that but I just couldn’t!”. Just because you make it past one date doesn’t mean anything these days. Those other things might have played a part but she still raised the issue, I didn’t.

And if you’re not escalating and getting physical on the first date and fvcking by the 3rd date latest, that’s a hole in your game, not in your looks.

If a woman is willing to fvck you, she’s not going to suddenly dump you for being too short at 5’10. Yeah maybe a taller guy comes along. Or maybe a better looking guy comes along. Or maybe a wealthier guy comes along. Or maybe a more socially connected guy comes along. Or maybe ... you get the drift. I’ve already heard all of the complaints.

 

[Robert28]

For a guy who is 5’10? Maybe an actual short guy, under 5’7. I’m not saying 5’10 is a positive attribute but for 90% of women (that you approach in real life) it’s not a deal-breaker, unless they are very shallow or they’re somewhat tall themselves.

I’m 5’10. My height has never been brought up to me. It’s never been an issue for me in dating. At least, not an issue I’m conscious of while I’m approaching women. Maybe that’s why I’ve still been able to pull pretty hot girls in situations where you would “come up short.”

The real reasons women reject you will never be told to you anyways. Just because it’s never been brought up doesn’t mean it hasn’t been a reason before. Women are masters at giving vague reasons to reject you.

 

[Robert28]

And if you’re not escalating and getting physical on the first date and fvcking by the 3rd date latest, that’s a hole in your game, not in your looks.

If a woman is willing to fvck you, she’s not going to suddenly dump you for being too short at 5’10. Yeah maybe a taller guy comes along. Or maybe a better looking guy comes along. Or maybe a wealthier guy comes along. Or maybe a more socially connected guy comes along. Or maybe ... you get the drift. I’ve already heard all of the complaints.

Just because a woman deems you good enough for a hookup doesn’t mean she will date you. Women **** many guys that will never meet their friends or family or go out with more than once or twice. You can’t confuse her willingness to **** you as her willingness to date you or enter a relationship with you.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I don’t care if women don’t like my height (5’7). They can exit stage left. Men, women that don’t like you are the biggest waste of time. Move onto the next.

 

[characternote]

guy with a good game can get any chick he wants.

lmao

 

[rjc149]

Just because a woman deems you good enough for a hookup doesn’t mean she will date you. Women **** many guys that will never meet their friends or family or go out with more than once or twice. You can’t confuse her willingness to **** you as her willingness to date you or enter a relationship with you.

If you feel validated by being the victim of shallow, height-focused women, all power to you.

 

[rjc149]

Honestly this forum is such a fvcking drain sometimes. All this negativity, anger, insecurity, self-loathing, self-pity, victimhood. **** is hopeless.

You guys finally did me in.

 

[Robert28]

If you feel validated by being the victim of shallow, height-focused women, all power to you.

Didn’t know they were shallow and had a height fetish prior to meeting them. Not like they had a sign on their forehead.

 

[SW15]

Women have made backhanded comments to me about my height and I’m 5’10”. A girl I was dating even said “if I wear my heels am I going to be taller than you?” and I remember thinking “who fvcking cares?”. Looking back on it, she had the Hangup not me. So now when I’m rejected after a few dates I always assume it’s because the girl tried to like me but couldn’t get past that I’m 5’10”.

Similar things have happened to me at 5'10".

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I’ve heard several women say flat out “he was perfect but I wish he was taller! I went out with him a few times hoping to be able to move past that but I just couldn’t!”. Just because you make it past one date doesn’t mean anything these days. Those other things might have played a part but she still raised the issue, I didn’t.

Guess I should just stop dating and fvcking these women since I am only 5'8" hahahaha

Maybe next time they have my c0ck in their mouth I can ask them if they are sure they want to do this cause I am only 5'8"

 

[logicallefty]

I never understood adults shaming other adults over a body feature they have no control over. Height, c0ck size, ugly nose or mouth, big feet, small t1ts; Anything given to a person by God that cannot be controlled. God doesn’t have a returns and exchange department. You take what you have to work with and you make the best of it.

 

[MatureDJ]

I've seen 5'1" and 5'2" women demand really tall men (6'0"+) and get away with it.

There's that 3 foot dwarf woman that I had posted earlier that gets away with it!

I know one 5'5" guy around age 50 who's been a master seducer since his teens. Rarely have any of his interactions with women exceeded 6 months. I'm not sure if that is by design. He tends to end up with some crazy women.

Wow, that sounds like me, except for the "master seducer" part.

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

yeah height matters but so what?
the sexier a girl is , the more she will demand what she wants , simple as that.
i've seen girls with dudes shorter than them , just pick on shorter girls and you good fool.
leave them amazon chix alone.

 

[MoMoses]

I slept with a girl a few weeks ago and in the morning she told me I was the first man under 1m90 (6'3'' for you Americans) she had ever slept with.

I'm 1m85 (6'1'')... I'm mean whatta?? Since when is my height an issue??

 

[redskinsfan92]

Women's standards cave for right guy. Height included.

 

[firstbornunicorn]

Just over 6' but have had two girlfriends that were taller than me. I attributed it to me at least being heavier.

 

[Focal core]

6'1 here.. Massive options. But lack of dating interest atm .. Girls that i date type always shaming short guys in their story telling..

I stop dating all together at 39 yrs.. Focusing on self improvement that i overlook since teenagers.. Never been out of relationship until recently.

 

[deBrito]

This height stuff must be a USA trend. In my land this does not matter.

 

[Robert28]

In many cases this is a woman walking on eggshells trying to figure out what a man would most prefer from her. Some men would be horrified to be out with a woman who is standing taller than he, with or without heels. Other men couldn’t care less. Some men would feel disrespected if a woman chose to wear heels that then made her appear taller than him. Others couldn’t care less. Some men find more flat shoes on women to be ugly and unattractive. Other men couldn’t care less. Some men would feel disrespected that a woman didn’t dress up in heels for him, when going out. Other men couldn’t care less. Some men are turned on by a woman wearing sexy heels and prioritize that over how tall she may appear, relative to him. Other men may find heels super sexy but never want to be seen as shorter than her, in public, so heels are out. And on the possibilities go on. How is she to know which man he is?

Some men have no issue discussing the topic openly. It bothers them not at all. Others are super sensitive and immediately interpret the fact that she is even hinting at the topic, as a personal judgement of him and his height. So rather than be direct many woman will hint to hopefully get some greater understanding of what the man she is seeing prioritizes and prefers.

Many women hint/ask in this way, as an attempt to inoffensively find out what would most please YOU, the man they will be seeing.

What would you like her to wear? Sexy high heels no matter what, low heels so not too much taller but still attractive, flats so not ever taller than you, or you couldn’t care less and she should just dress however she feels attractive/sexy and ready for a good time with you.

If a woman brings this up, it is not necessarily a woman negging a man and his height. It often is a woman seeking to dress to please the man and gain his further approval.

Be careful of assumptions. Before you know it, assumptions can limit one’s perspective. And that limited perspective can then significantly limit a person from achieving their desired results.

As a guy you have to be very careful when complimenting a woman on her shoes. That’s a quick way to get labeled as “a creep with a foot/shoe fetish”. Now, women will spend $$$$ on shoes, pedicures, even tattoos on their feet, but don’t you dare say they look sexy in flats or a certain pair of heels or you’ll be met with “do you have a foot fetish?”. Probably why a lot of guys steer clear of that whole conversation to begin with because it’s a trap.