donArjun
Don Juan
4/21 hoping my DJ skills is what takes off 
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Gateway
Don Juan
3/21
my mind keeps telling me that porn and masturbation is a normal part of my life, well it really is my fault i let it masturbate for so long that it got used to it now im having a tough time with the whole not masturbating
---Zin
---P.S. thanks ThunderMaverick
my mind keeps telling me that porn and masturbation is a normal part of my life, well it really is my fault i let it masturbate for so long that it got used to it now im having a tough time with the whole not masturbating
---Zin
---P.S. thanks ThunderMaverick
Gateway
Don Juan
4/21 my hands cant help it sometimes lucky thing i fought the temptation i just dont know how much longer i can last.My hornyness is trying to reason with me telling me it's alright and there's nothing wrong with it but i know the devil's voice maybe sweet sometimes but i can do this
---Zin
---P.S. potbelly how many times man
---Zin
---P.S. potbelly how many times man
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ThunderMaverick
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Whooo I almost slipped up. I...I couldn't help it. I watched a few porn clips and got as hard as a rock. >_< But I didn't touch it! I'm relieved...I guess.
*STAMP!!!*
4/25 days no herkin' jerkin'!
2/25 days without fast food!
5/25 days without soda!
We believe in you, Potbelly! Man it must have felt like a load off to break the habbit. HAhahahaha.
*STAMP!!!*
4/25 days no herkin' jerkin'!
2/25 days without fast food!
5/25 days without soda!
We believe in you, Potbelly! Man it must have felt like a load off to break the habbit. HAhahahaha.
donArjun
Don Juan
5/21 .... i am even ready to nail this :cheer:
ThunderMaverick
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Auugh! I screwed up. That's all I'll say. I screwed up.
0/25 jerkin... ;_;
But I'm still clean off soda and fast food! Actually, I'm on the south beach diet. Just hardcore veggies and stuff for 2 weeks. My girlfriend's on it too, so I'm definetly not giving up on that. I just had alot of pressure. Hopefully I can sleep now.
0/25 jerkin... ;_;
But I'm still clean off soda and fast food! Actually, I'm on the south beach diet. Just hardcore veggies and stuff for 2 weeks. My girlfriend's on it too, so I'm definetly not giving up on that. I just had alot of pressure. Hopefully I can sleep now.
Gateway
Don Juan
4/21 k my i know masturbation feels good but only till it comes out then i dont feel a thing so there's no point but my brain wont listen damn
and every time i start again i wont stop i hate it.
---Zin
P.S.
---oh thundermaverick guess what i'm a veggitarian since i was 8 years old
so trust me the meat may smell good but you can stop yourself no worries mate
---i understand potbelly.
and every time i start again i wont stop i hate it.
---Zin
P.S.
---oh thundermaverick guess what i'm a veggitarian since i was 8 years old
so trust me the meat may smell good but you can stop yourself no worries mate
---i understand potbelly.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ThunderMaverick
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I've been having a bit of withdrawls with bread and meat I was literally shaking when i woke up. I had a few turkey slices (light fat) some more vegitables and a bit of shrimp ****tail. I feel better!Gateway said:
3/25 days of no fast food and junk
6/25 days no soda!
donArjun
Don Juan
had wet dream un-intended last night, so I guess that moves me back to 0.
Nex
Senior Don Juan
If you have a wet dream you can still continue.. it's "masturbation" not "no ejaculation"... It's impossible to go for 21 days WITHOUT ejaculating, your testicles continue producing semen so you'll have a wet dream want it or not.
paraguayandj
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we're too busy masturbating:rockon:Gateway said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
paraguayandj
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0/21 here we go, here we go
DrSassyPants
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5/21.....and really horny. i feel a little more motivated to do stuff
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Day 0... I'll do it this time. I swear on it!
Um, maybe I'm missing something. (I've just come back to the boards after about a year long break). Whats so bad about masterbation? I mean everything in moderation, but if you're going through a dry streach I dont see that theres anything wrong with masterbating every 2-3 days. It relaxes ya and relieves stress and keeps ya from stainin ur tidy whities lol. So yeah, I'm kind of confused.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.