donArjun
Don Juan
4/21 hoping my DJ skills is what takes off 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Gateway
Don Juan
3/21
my mind keeps telling me that porn and masturbation is a normal part of my life, well it really is my fault i let it masturbate for so long that it got used to it now im having a tough time with the whole not masturbating
---Zin
---P.S. thanks ThunderMaverick
my mind keeps telling me that porn and masturbation is a normal part of my life, well it really is my fault i let it masturbate for so long that it got used to it now im having a tough time with the whole not masturbating
---Zin
---P.S. thanks ThunderMaverick
Gateway
Don Juan
4/21 my hands cant help it sometimes lucky thing i fought the temptation i just dont know how much longer i can last.My hornyness is trying to reason with me telling me it's alright and there's nothing wrong with it but i know the devil's voice maybe sweet sometimes but i can do this
---Zin
---P.S. potbelly how many times man
---Zin
---P.S. potbelly how many times man
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ThunderMaverick
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Whooo I almost slipped up. I...I couldn't help it. I watched a few porn clips and got as hard as a rock. >_< But I didn't touch it! I'm relieved...I guess.
*STAMP!!!*
4/25 days no herkin' jerkin'!
2/25 days without fast food!
5/25 days without soda!
We believe in you, Potbelly! Man it must have felt like a load off to break the habbit. HAhahahaha.
*STAMP!!!*
4/25 days no herkin' jerkin'!
2/25 days without fast food!
5/25 days without soda!
We believe in you, Potbelly! Man it must have felt like a load off to break the habbit. HAhahahaha.
donArjun
Don Juan
5/21 .... i am even ready to nail this :cheer:
ThunderMaverick
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Auugh! I screwed up. That's all I'll say. I screwed up.
0/25 jerkin... ;_;
But I'm still clean off soda and fast food! Actually, I'm on the south beach diet. Just hardcore veggies and stuff for 2 weeks. My girlfriend's on it too, so I'm definetly not giving up on that. I just had alot of pressure. Hopefully I can sleep now.
0/25 jerkin... ;_;
But I'm still clean off soda and fast food! Actually, I'm on the south beach diet. Just hardcore veggies and stuff for 2 weeks. My girlfriend's on it too, so I'm definetly not giving up on that. I just had alot of pressure. Hopefully I can sleep now.
Gateway
Don Juan
4/21 k my i know masturbation feels good but only till it comes out then i dont feel a thing so there's no point but my brain wont listen damn
and every time i start again i wont stop i hate it.
---Zin
P.S.
---oh thundermaverick guess what i'm a veggitarian since i was 8 years old
so trust me the meat may smell good but you can stop yourself no worries mate
---i understand potbelly.
and every time i start again i wont stop i hate it.
---Zin
P.S.
---oh thundermaverick guess what i'm a veggitarian since i was 8 years old
so trust me the meat may smell good but you can stop yourself no worries mate
---i understand potbelly.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
ThunderMaverick
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I've been having a bit of withdrawls with bread and meat I was literally shaking when i woke up. I had a few turkey slices (light fat) some more vegitables and a bit of shrimp ****tail. I feel better!Gateway said:
3/25 days of no fast food and junk
6/25 days no soda!
donArjun
Don Juan
had wet dream un-intended last night, so I guess that moves me back to 0.
Nex
Senior Don Juan
If you have a wet dream you can still continue.. it's "masturbation" not "no ejaculation"... It's impossible to go for 21 days WITHOUT ejaculating, your testicles continue producing semen so you'll have a wet dream want it or not.
paraguayandj
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we're too busy masturbating:rockon:Gateway said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
paraguayandj
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0/21 here we go, here we go
DrSassyPants
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5/21.....and really horny. i feel a little more motivated to do stuff
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Day 0... I'll do it this time. I swear on it!
Um, maybe I'm missing something. (I've just come back to the boards after about a year long break). Whats so bad about masterbation? I mean everything in moderation, but if you're going through a dry streach I dont see that theres anything wrong with masterbating every 2-3 days. It relaxes ya and relieves stress and keeps ya from stainin ur tidy whities lol. So yeah, I'm kind of confused.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.