donArjun
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4/21 hoping my DJ skills is what takes off 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Gateway
Don Juan
3/21
my mind keeps telling me that porn and masturbation is a normal part of my life, well it really is my fault i let it masturbate for so long that it got used to it now im having a tough time with the whole not masturbating
---Zin
---P.S. thanks ThunderMaverick
my mind keeps telling me that porn and masturbation is a normal part of my life, well it really is my fault i let it masturbate for so long that it got used to it now im having a tough time with the whole not masturbating
---Zin
---P.S. thanks ThunderMaverick
Gateway
Don Juan
4/21 my hands cant help it sometimes lucky thing i fought the temptation i just dont know how much longer i can last.My hornyness is trying to reason with me telling me it's alright and there's nothing wrong with it but i know the devil's voice maybe sweet sometimes but i can do this
---Zin
---P.S. potbelly how many times man
---Zin
---P.S. potbelly how many times man
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ThunderMaverick
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Whooo I almost slipped up. I...I couldn't help it. I watched a few porn clips and got as hard as a rock. >_< But I didn't touch it! I'm relieved...I guess.
*STAMP!!!*
4/25 days no herkin' jerkin'!
2/25 days without fast food!
5/25 days without soda!
We believe in you, Potbelly! Man it must have felt like a load off to break the habbit. HAhahahaha.
*STAMP!!!*
4/25 days no herkin' jerkin'!
2/25 days without fast food!
5/25 days without soda!
We believe in you, Potbelly! Man it must have felt like a load off to break the habbit. HAhahahaha.
donArjun
Don Juan
5/21 .... i am even ready to nail this :cheer:
ThunderMaverick
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Auugh! I screwed up. That's all I'll say. I screwed up.
0/25 jerkin... ;_;
But I'm still clean off soda and fast food! Actually, I'm on the south beach diet. Just hardcore veggies and stuff for 2 weeks. My girlfriend's on it too, so I'm definetly not giving up on that. I just had alot of pressure. Hopefully I can sleep now.
0/25 jerkin... ;_;
But I'm still clean off soda and fast food! Actually, I'm on the south beach diet. Just hardcore veggies and stuff for 2 weeks. My girlfriend's on it too, so I'm definetly not giving up on that. I just had alot of pressure. Hopefully I can sleep now.
Gateway
Don Juan
4/21 k my i know masturbation feels good but only till it comes out then i dont feel a thing so there's no point but my brain wont listen damn
and every time i start again i wont stop i hate it.
---Zin
P.S.
---oh thundermaverick guess what i'm a veggitarian since i was 8 years old
so trust me the meat may smell good but you can stop yourself no worries mate
---i understand potbelly.
and every time i start again i wont stop i hate it.
---Zin
P.S.
---oh thundermaverick guess what i'm a veggitarian since i was 8 years old
so trust me the meat may smell good but you can stop yourself no worries mate
---i understand potbelly.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ThunderMaverick
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I've been having a bit of withdrawls with bread and meat I was literally shaking when i woke up. I had a few turkey slices (light fat) some more vegitables and a bit of shrimp ****tail. I feel better!Gateway said:
3/25 days of no fast food and junk
6/25 days no soda!
donArjun
Don Juan
had wet dream un-intended last night, so I guess that moves me back to 0.
Nex
Senior Don Juan
If you have a wet dream you can still continue.. it's "masturbation" not "no ejaculation"... It's impossible to go for 21 days WITHOUT ejaculating, your testicles continue producing semen so you'll have a wet dream want it or not.
paraguayandj
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we're too busy masturbating:rockon:Gateway said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
paraguayandj
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0/21 here we go, here we go
DrSassyPants
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5/21.....and really horny. i feel a little more motivated to do stuff
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Day 0... I'll do it this time. I swear on it!
Um, maybe I'm missing something. (I've just come back to the boards after about a year long break). Whats so bad about masterbation? I mean everything in moderation, but if you're going through a dry streach I dont see that theres anything wrong with masterbating every 2-3 days. It relaxes ya and relieves stress and keeps ya from stainin ur tidy whities lol. So yeah, I'm kind of confused.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.