donArjun
Don Juan
4/21 hoping my DJ skills is what takes off 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Gateway
Don Juan
3/21
my mind keeps telling me that porn and masturbation is a normal part of my life, well it really is my fault i let it masturbate for so long that it got used to it now im having a tough time with the whole not masturbating
---Zin
---P.S. thanks ThunderMaverick
my mind keeps telling me that porn and masturbation is a normal part of my life, well it really is my fault i let it masturbate for so long that it got used to it now im having a tough time with the whole not masturbating
---Zin
---P.S. thanks ThunderMaverick
Gateway
Don Juan
4/21 my hands cant help it sometimes lucky thing i fought the temptation i just dont know how much longer i can last.My hornyness is trying to reason with me telling me it's alright and there's nothing wrong with it but i know the devil's voice maybe sweet sometimes but i can do this
---Zin
---P.S. potbelly how many times man
---Zin
---P.S. potbelly how many times man
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ThunderMaverick
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Whooo I almost slipped up. I...I couldn't help it. I watched a few porn clips and got as hard as a rock. >_< But I didn't touch it! I'm relieved...I guess.
*STAMP!!!*
4/25 days no herkin' jerkin'!
2/25 days without fast food!
5/25 days without soda!
We believe in you, Potbelly! Man it must have felt like a load off to break the habbit. HAhahahaha.
*STAMP!!!*
4/25 days no herkin' jerkin'!
2/25 days without fast food!
5/25 days without soda!
We believe in you, Potbelly! Man it must have felt like a load off to break the habbit. HAhahahaha.
donArjun
Don Juan
5/21 .... i am even ready to nail this :cheer:
ThunderMaverick
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Auugh! I screwed up. That's all I'll say. I screwed up.
0/25 jerkin... ;_;
But I'm still clean off soda and fast food! Actually, I'm on the south beach diet. Just hardcore veggies and stuff for 2 weeks. My girlfriend's on it too, so I'm definetly not giving up on that. I just had alot of pressure. Hopefully I can sleep now.
0/25 jerkin... ;_;
But I'm still clean off soda and fast food! Actually, I'm on the south beach diet. Just hardcore veggies and stuff for 2 weeks. My girlfriend's on it too, so I'm definetly not giving up on that. I just had alot of pressure. Hopefully I can sleep now.
Gateway
Don Juan
4/21 k my i know masturbation feels good but only till it comes out then i dont feel a thing so there's no point but my brain wont listen damn
and every time i start again i wont stop i hate it.
---Zin
P.S.
---oh thundermaverick guess what i'm a veggitarian since i was 8 years old
so trust me the meat may smell good but you can stop yourself no worries mate
---i understand potbelly.
and every time i start again i wont stop i hate it.
---Zin
P.S.
---oh thundermaverick guess what i'm a veggitarian since i was 8 years old
so trust me the meat may smell good but you can stop yourself no worries mate
---i understand potbelly.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ThunderMaverick
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I've been having a bit of withdrawls with bread and meat I was literally shaking when i woke up. I had a few turkey slices (light fat) some more vegitables and a bit of shrimp ****tail. I feel better!Gateway said:
3/25 days of no fast food and junk
6/25 days no soda!
donArjun
Don Juan
had wet dream un-intended last night, so I guess that moves me back to 0.
Nex
Senior Don Juan
If you have a wet dream you can still continue.. it's "masturbation" not "no ejaculation"... It's impossible to go for 21 days WITHOUT ejaculating, your testicles continue producing semen so you'll have a wet dream want it or not.
paraguayandj
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we're too busy masturbating:rockon:Gateway said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
paraguayandj
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0/21 here we go, here we go
DrSassyPants
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5/21.....and really horny. i feel a little more motivated to do stuff
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Day 0... I'll do it this time. I swear on it!
Um, maybe I'm missing something. (I've just come back to the boards after about a year long break). Whats so bad about masterbation? I mean everything in moderation, but if you're going through a dry streach I dont see that theres anything wrong with masterbating every 2-3 days. It relaxes ya and relieves stress and keeps ya from stainin ur tidy whities lol. So yeah, I'm kind of confused.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.