donArjun
Don Juan
4/21 hoping my DJ skills is what takes off 
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Gateway
Don Juan
3/21
my mind keeps telling me that porn and masturbation is a normal part of my life, well it really is my fault i let it masturbate for so long that it got used to it now im having a tough time with the whole not masturbating
---Zin
---P.S. thanks ThunderMaverick
my mind keeps telling me that porn and masturbation is a normal part of my life, well it really is my fault i let it masturbate for so long that it got used to it now im having a tough time with the whole not masturbating
---Zin
---P.S. thanks ThunderMaverick
Gateway
Don Juan
4/21 my hands cant help it sometimes lucky thing i fought the temptation i just dont know how much longer i can last.My hornyness is trying to reason with me telling me it's alright and there's nothing wrong with it but i know the devil's voice maybe sweet sometimes but i can do this
---Zin
---P.S. potbelly how many times man
---Zin
---P.S. potbelly how many times man
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ThunderMaverick
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Whooo I almost slipped up. I...I couldn't help it. I watched a few porn clips and got as hard as a rock. >_< But I didn't touch it! I'm relieved...I guess.
*STAMP!!!*
4/25 days no herkin' jerkin'!
2/25 days without fast food!
5/25 days without soda!
We believe in you, Potbelly! Man it must have felt like a load off to break the habbit. HAhahahaha.
*STAMP!!!*
4/25 days no herkin' jerkin'!
2/25 days without fast food!
5/25 days without soda!
We believe in you, Potbelly! Man it must have felt like a load off to break the habbit. HAhahahaha.
donArjun
Don Juan
5/21 .... i am even ready to nail this :cheer:
ThunderMaverick
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Auugh! I screwed up. That's all I'll say. I screwed up.
0/25 jerkin... ;_;
But I'm still clean off soda and fast food! Actually, I'm on the south beach diet. Just hardcore veggies and stuff for 2 weeks. My girlfriend's on it too, so I'm definetly not giving up on that. I just had alot of pressure. Hopefully I can sleep now.
0/25 jerkin... ;_;
But I'm still clean off soda and fast food! Actually, I'm on the south beach diet. Just hardcore veggies and stuff for 2 weeks. My girlfriend's on it too, so I'm definetly not giving up on that. I just had alot of pressure. Hopefully I can sleep now.
Gateway
Don Juan
4/21 k my i know masturbation feels good but only till it comes out then i dont feel a thing so there's no point but my brain wont listen damn
and every time i start again i wont stop i hate it.
---Zin
P.S.
---oh thundermaverick guess what i'm a veggitarian since i was 8 years old
so trust me the meat may smell good but you can stop yourself no worries mate
---i understand potbelly.
and every time i start again i wont stop i hate it.
---Zin
P.S.
---oh thundermaverick guess what i'm a veggitarian since i was 8 years old
so trust me the meat may smell good but you can stop yourself no worries mate
---i understand potbelly.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ThunderMaverick
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I've been having a bit of withdrawls with bread and meat I was literally shaking when i woke up. I had a few turkey slices (light fat) some more vegitables and a bit of shrimp ****tail. I feel better!Gateway said:
3/25 days of no fast food and junk
6/25 days no soda!
donArjun
Don Juan
had wet dream un-intended last night, so I guess that moves me back to 0.
Nex
Senior Don Juan
If you have a wet dream you can still continue.. it's "masturbation" not "no ejaculation"... It's impossible to go for 21 days WITHOUT ejaculating, your testicles continue producing semen so you'll have a wet dream want it or not.
paraguayandj
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we're too busy masturbating:rockon:Gateway said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
paraguayandj
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0/21 here we go, here we go
DrSassyPants
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5/21.....and really horny. i feel a little more motivated to do stuff
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Day 0... I'll do it this time. I swear on it!
Um, maybe I'm missing something. (I've just come back to the boards after about a year long break). Whats so bad about masterbation? I mean everything in moderation, but if you're going through a dry streach I dont see that theres anything wrong with masterbating every 2-3 days. It relaxes ya and relieves stress and keeps ya from stainin ur tidy whities lol. So yeah, I'm kind of confused.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.