"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

dadmonson

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This question goes out to all of yall that finished the 21 days. Which part was the worse, the beginning, the middle, or the end and why...

as for me...

day 1 pending
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I don't kno about yall but when I go long periods without ejaculating or masturbating and then when I do, it doesn't feel as good, anybody else notices this?
 

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argh!
my manliness returns!

wohoo!
6/21.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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flyinshark

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dadmonson said:
I don't kno about yall but when I go long periods without ejaculating or masturbating and then when I do, it doesn't feel as good, anybody else notices this?
Yeah. Here are my findings: If i do it after 4-6 days of abstinence, it feels really, really great. But if i do it after more than 8 days, sometimes it's not THAT good. Sometimes it is, but not always.

I think a-wank-a-week is the ideal, but that's me.
 

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14/21

I am going to make it! The first few days were the hardest, but it's all right now. Even though I have been tempted - good thing I have had sex both weekends.

And yes, I have had the same experience as Dadmonson.
 

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I'll be keeping record in both threads

guess if you're busy it'll be easyer.

3/21
 

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moses! 3/21
i am very nervous.
not because of this only.i feel alone.that's something ..depressive..yes right word..today was depressed..i did not feel confident.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You know, it would be so much easier to do if I had a girl to help out. Oh well...that's part of the reason I'm doing this...that, and masturbating twice a day (sometimes more) was too much. Also went to the gym today and got someone there to get me started on some weight training. I plan on doing this three days a week, MWF. Time for some muscle.
 

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I busted a load on day 23, and honestly, I feel better than ever.

Not jerking off this long has got to be the most retarded thing I've ever done. I'll just stick to every other day. Works fine for me.
 

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hey, PumpNightmare, that's awesome to start hitting the gym. i've been going since 3 weeks ago, and to say it feels incredible would be an understatement. i look forward to going every time, and that 1hr hitting the weights is literally euphoric.

be careful though, as it's going to boost your testosterone a bit. :rockon:

but i honestly think that masturbating is detrimental to working out. i don't think i could have gained the 3lbs of muscle in the past 2 weeks if i had been wacking off the whole time.

good luck w/ your routine.

i'm currently on day 4/21 (2nd option)

btw, i really really need to get laid soon. i'm going to post something in discussion boards about my 'problem'
 

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poor guys. I guess this is all about self control.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah i've made it day 3/21 option 1, man this is starting to get to me.
 

PumpNightmare

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3/21 and feeling horny, but the begining is easy...just that end that's hard.
Started my workout today. I had to lower the weight more then what was recomended yesterday. Then again, yesterday I only had time to ask how to work the machines and get a general idea what to do. But to to 3 sets of 10 on these...I struggle after the first one. Rode my bike a mile back home and stretched out a bit...hoepfuly I'll be good for Friday.
 

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Day 8/21, option 1

I've felt confident every day since Day 1. Whether it's just the 'placebo' effect or not, it's still working, which is all that matters.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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