"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

dadmonson

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This question goes out to all of yall that finished the 21 days. Which part was the worse, the beginning, the middle, or the end and why...

as for me...

day 1 pending
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dadmonson

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I don't kno about yall but when I go long periods without ejaculating or masturbating and then when I do, it doesn't feel as good, anybody else notices this?
 

Dogfish

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argh!
my manliness returns!

wohoo!
6/21.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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flyinshark

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dadmonson said:
I don't kno about yall but when I go long periods without ejaculating or masturbating and then when I do, it doesn't feel as good, anybody else notices this?
Yeah. Here are my findings: If i do it after 4-6 days of abstinence, it feels really, really great. But if i do it after more than 8 days, sometimes it's not THAT good. Sometimes it is, but not always.

I think a-wank-a-week is the ideal, but that's me.
 

Friendly Otter

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14/21

I am going to make it! The first few days were the hardest, but it's all right now. Even though I have been tempted - good thing I have had sex both weekends.

And yes, I have had the same experience as Dadmonson.
 

Holland

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I'll be keeping record in both threads

guess if you're busy it'll be easyer.

3/21
 

piterx

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moses! 3/21
i am very nervous.
not because of this only.i feel alone.that's something ..depressive..yes right word..today was depressed..i did not feel confident.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PumpNightmare

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2/21
You know, it would be so much easier to do if I had a girl to help out. Oh well...that's part of the reason I'm doing this...that, and masturbating twice a day (sometimes more) was too much. Also went to the gym today and got someone there to get me started on some weight training. I plan on doing this three days a week, MWF. Time for some muscle.
 

Eulogy

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I busted a load on day 23, and honestly, I feel better than ever.

Not jerking off this long has got to be the most retarded thing I've ever done. I'll just stick to every other day. Works fine for me.
 

chickenlegs03

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hey, PumpNightmare, that's awesome to start hitting the gym. i've been going since 3 weeks ago, and to say it feels incredible would be an understatement. i look forward to going every time, and that 1hr hitting the weights is literally euphoric.

be careful though, as it's going to boost your testosterone a bit. :rockon:

but i honestly think that masturbating is detrimental to working out. i don't think i could have gained the 3lbs of muscle in the past 2 weeks if i had been wacking off the whole time.

good luck w/ your routine.

i'm currently on day 4/21 (2nd option)

btw, i really really need to get laid soon. i'm going to post something in discussion boards about my 'problem'
 

Skilla_Staz

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poor guys. I guess this is all about self control.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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kav_3

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yeah i've made it day 3/21 option 1, man this is starting to get to me.
 

PumpNightmare

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3/21 and feeling horny, but the begining is easy...just that end that's hard.
Started my workout today. I had to lower the weight more then what was recomended yesterday. Then again, yesterday I only had time to ask how to work the machines and get a general idea what to do. But to to 3 sets of 10 on these...I struggle after the first one. Rode my bike a mile back home and stretched out a bit...hoepfuly I'll be good for Friday.
 

il_duce

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Day 8/21, option 1

I've felt confident every day since Day 1. Whether it's just the 'placebo' effect or not, it's still working, which is all that matters.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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