Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I have the same problem Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I do all of them bar 4wolf116 said:haha I know, I'm a fan
But seriously, you need to take a lesson from my 'natural order of things'
1. Get outside and into the wild
2. Eat natural food
3. lift heavy objects and walk around
4. Sleep at natural times
the end
. Its starting to get really serious too, i'm finding it difficult to eat a meal 4 hours before my 7:30 Muay Thai class due to sleeping in until 4. Does anyone have some research info done on adjusting sleep cycles? I'd be very greatfull.Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
so now we know that iqqi makes her bread as a webcam chick. imLive.com? i have a friend of a friend that promotes that, $100 per sign up or rev share. PM me and i can probably swing a deal between you and him and split the revenue.iqqi said:Thank gosh for the internet. I am glad I can make a living through that, and my own means. But sometimes you have to wake up to make the post office, or secretary of state...
I look very young for my age, because I have slept half of life.
Look at who bumped this thread, and therein lies your answer.LeComteDeMonteCristo said:
And I do prefer boys who are NICE, not nasty, even though both tend to mean the same. One of those techniques was supposed to be outgrown in kindergarden. You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
NO REALLY? I HATE PEOPLE WHO ARE KIND TO ME!!!!!!!!iqqi said:Haha, he has oneitis for the iq. Not the first one.
I prefer your nose, have you considered getting into nose-fetish? I'd pay for that! ;DJust kidding. I was telling someone the other day I might go with the foot fetish scene online. I have pretty feet.
since there is a dispute as to your real gender, split the difference and get yourself on a Tranny site. i'm sure Gubby wouldn't mind.iqqi said:Haha, he has oneitis for the iq. Not the first one.
Gubby, it IS really cool... except when I'm up, I'm up... but when I'm down, I am DOWN. Being broke is not cool. I am thinking about diversifying (online of course). I may have to hit TooCold up.
Just kidding. I was telling someone the other day I might go with the foot fetish scene online. I have pretty feet.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Have you cracked the Forty yet?iqqi said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.