penkitten
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
It depends on the results of the scientific experiments.![]()
im so glad i rock at science!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
It depends on the results of the scientific experiments.![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If I had known the Mature Man forum could be this fun, I'd have turned 25 a long time ago!Originally posted by penkitten
im so glad i rock at science!
Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
If I had known the Mature Man forum could be this fun, I'd have turned 25 a long time ago!
Why didn't you tell me sooner? Now it's going to take a lot of time and energy to get me caught up. You'd better be up for it.Originally posted by penkitten
well duh! thats why i turned 25 two years ago haha
me = always up for itOriginally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Why didn't you tell me sooner? Now it's going to take a lot of time and energy to get me caught up. You'd better be up for it.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The answer is yes.Originally posted by penkitten
the question really is ..
can YOU handle me?
Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
The answer is yes.
Get up here and I'll prove it.
I don't know, but every minute you're there and not here is another minute your world isn't getting rocked.Originally posted by penkitten
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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I don't know, but every minute you're there and not here is another minute your world isn't getting rocked.
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You talk big but I don't see you naked in my bed yet.Originally posted by penkitten
rocked?
you better be planning to knock it off its axle![]()
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
You talk big but I don't see you naked in my bed yet.
Theres also a really funny bash.org joke about that. Too lazy to look right now.Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I'm putting on my robe and wizard hat right now.
Ten points for anyone who gets that joke.
Originally posted by baseballDJ
Hahahaha
(no offense P_S but it is funny)
This thread made my night.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Originally posted by Gipper
You saucy kids are getting me all hot and bothered! Get a room!
wash yer sheets casanova... penkitten is coming over to play
It's like you said, Gip. Things happen to me.Originally posted by Gipper
Oh boy.![]()
Gipper
Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
It's like you said, Gip. Things happen to me.
Penkitten... Just call me catnip. I' ll drive you out of your mind.
Yup.Originally posted by penkitten
promise??
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.